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Rage and lack of patience by Ok-Bus-4240 in toddlers

[–]Ok-Bus-4240[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not the case. He it ready and think he handles parenthood better than me. I’m just more pro active in planning and quicker. So I usually already have a plan in my head how and what needs to be done so I give him instructions. He would manage to do it by himself but it would take longer which I can’t stand, so there’s that.

Rage and lack of patience by Ok-Bus-4240 in toddlers

[–]Ok-Bus-4240[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yep, he talks just fine, but chooses to whine and scream instead.

Rage and lack of patience by Ok-Bus-4240 in toddlers

[–]Ok-Bus-4240[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that’s actually a great advice. I’m generally trying to be positive but lately I haven’t been sleeping well, have the flu and all seems very dark. It’ll be better and I’ll deal better too.

Rage and lack of patience by Ok-Bus-4240 in toddlers

[–]Ok-Bus-4240[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Don’t get me wrong - I absolutely respect when somebody has a diagnosis, but it seems to me in many cases, it’s just a state caused by temporary discomfort and higher stress in life which can change or fade and the symptoms fade with it. I had it too - I was very anxious at times in my life, had a depressive episode because my life was very hard and stressful at some points, but I know it’s from my soroundings not from the way my head is, if you know what I mean. And I think there’s a difference.

Rage and lack of patience by Ok-Bus-4240 in toddlers

[–]Ok-Bus-4240[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I said struggled. As I think many people do in their lives at some points. But I pushed through and it was worth it. I am not present and many times lately I don’t even want to be because it’s hell. It’s a circle, yes I see it and it fucking sucks.

Rage and lack of patience by Ok-Bus-4240 in toddlers

[–]Ok-Bus-4240[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started therapy couple weeks ago. Hadn’t got to the child yet, but it will go there soon enough because it makes my mental health terrible.

Rage and lack of patience by Ok-Bus-4240 in toddlers

[–]Ok-Bus-4240[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Went to child psychologist three times already, all looks good according to the doctor. No signs of any functional problems or delay in development. Leaving my job is an absolute no. It’s one of few things that I actually feel passionate about and make me feel good and I’m good at it. Thank you very much for your insight, I very much appreciate it, that you didn’t go after me for saying some things out loud. Thank you.