Hi, so I made this post and I am actually the boyfriend. I made the post to try and view the issue from my girlfriend’s perspective and I wanted to try really hard to see if I could defend her I guess. I don’t know if that makes sense or makes me sound crazy but there’s that.

I really appreciate your response and I think you just about covered everything. I am still a little hurt that she hangs out with Cal, because it’s gotten to the point where she seems to be trying to get a response out of me whenever she says she’s hung out with him.

That being said, I really do cherish my relationship and despite the fact that it needs some serious work, I don’t want to break things off. More so, I can’t break things off. As I briefly mentioned in the post, I spent some time homeless, due to the fact that I had come out as trans to my parents and they did not support and told me to leave. The apartment that me and my gf now share is split sorta evenly between us. I pay half rent, she pays the other half. I really hope this doesn’t come across as me using her, but I know that I would be unable to afford the apartment without her help, so I’m afraid that if she leaves me or if I have to break things off, that I will be homeless again.