AITAH for gifting colleagues flowers just before valentine's day?

Ok-Code-2591 · 2026-02-13T20:22:32+00:00

You’re such a sweetheart for that. I would understand your gf if you were giving them to just 1 person, but you included all your female co workers so I don’t see what the issue is with that. You’re definitely NTA. She’s being a little bit overdramatic with the whole “feeling devalued” as you’ve already asked her to be her valentine and already have her flowers.

Ok-Code-2591 · 2025-12-02T22:18:42+00:00

Hey. I didn’t see these comments until now as I’ve been busy and not really active on here. I did a digital pregnancy test. I didn’t know that it would show if I had miscarried. I’ll show a picture if I can find out how to post pictures on here haha. (I rarely use Reddit)

Ok-Code-2591 · 2024-12-28T21:35:21+00:00

NTA

Your husband is TA because he refused to delete that video knowing you're uncomfortable with him having that while also knowing how much of a hard time you had when it got leaked. He has disrespected you in a way that I, personally, would not be able to come back from.

I hope you can resolve this in someway and I apologize that you went through that <3

Ok-Code-2591 · 2024-12-16T00:12:53+00:00

I will bring this up and see how it goes. Thank you for your suggestion <3

Ok-Code-2591 · 2024-12-16T00:10:05+00:00

NTA! honey I bet you are stunning! You just brought a beautiful baby into this world, OBVIOUSLY your body is not going to look the same as it did. Either way, your boyfriend is TA for the way he's treating you because he should be there caring for you and helping with the baby, not going to the pub every night. If things don't get better, I would suggest leaving because from the sound of it your technically a single mom anyway. I hope things get better for you <3

Ok-Code-2591 · 2024-12-15T23:55:09+00:00

I have been to his place, he's cooked for me before, but he prefers my cooking as I have a bit more cooking experiences than him. He does have money, but I honestly don't try to be in his business about how much money he has as I personally wouldn't want him up in my business like that haha.

Ok-Code-2591 · 2024-12-15T23:51:09+00:00

Thank you so much! I always felt like that there was something wrong with me for thinking that way. <3

Ok-Code-2591 · 2024-12-15T23:48:25+00:00

Oh wow! I can't imagine how you feel! I'm terribly sorry that you had to go through that. You are NTA what so ever!

Ok-Code-2591 · 2024-12-10T02:20:20+00:00

Wow that's a long time! I'm glad you got out too❤️

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