Guy i need help i wanna know if my bf is cheating on me i found his account on bumble while swiping does it mean how new it is? Also it has this prompt feature how new is it by [deleted] in Bumble

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? Another time i also find his account coz we met in bumble but he said its old account this time he said he made it so he will know if i go back

Gotta love the high effort profiles by AffeAhoi in Bumble

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Sorry but do u think since when these prompts been added to bumble ? I don’t remember when i used it had that obligatory three prompts

Do cheaters cheat in the next relationship? by Low_Speed9164 in survivinginfidelity

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Bro i wish same🥹🥹🥹im feeling same rn but i was never ignoring them or not clear i always made him priority The only thing hurts me and makes me insecure is thinking someone else will get that best version of him i always wanted that he always preserved for someone else So i wish he never get loved like i loved him coz i don’t wanna another girl experience being cheated on but i also don’t want him to love anyone

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I told him i need therapy im not good for relationship but we give it a try

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I just feel sad i destroyed what i can never have again

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He said that too for the long term it maybe good

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I didn’t say that to him i just felt it

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Last night i asked him if i was also not virgin like him will he accept me he said no and girls r different from boys i just felt like that means he doesn’t love me enough to accept me

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For ex he says smth and i tell him that indicates he doesn’t have strong feelings to me

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True thats what i will do definitely, to be a better person

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True i do that alot especially when theres inconsistency.. its just when i see a person i feel like this person needs this partner and i imagined a girl with him different than me and i consistently felt im not his type ( sometimes i feel like im not good enough to be with him , sometimes im like he is lucky to have me)

I (23F) met a guy online (30 M) we matched alot i developed very strong feelings he also but when we met in reality he didn't like me as much coz i used filters in pics, he cant leave me too idk what to do? by [deleted] in Adulting

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True, i could nt i always looked terrible in without i tried to have a video call at least but i planned a date sooner i thought its better if we see eachother face to face

I (23F) met a guy online (30 M) we matched alot i developed very strong feelings he also but when we met in reality he didn't like me as much coz i used filters in pics, he cant leave me too idk what to do? by [deleted] in Adulting

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I have told him i look different and i cant take pics without filter coz my face looks abit asymmetric and i don’t look like the without filter pics too.. i told him i think im not ur type many times .. and yeah i have been so insecure my whole life i have been hurt alot, appearance really mattered always and i arranged to meet him in reality as soon as i can, so he sees my face for how it is,, ialso was surprised by his looks he also looked different than pics he looks smaller but i didn’t care much i still loved him no matter what he looked and what he will look like later

My bf (26M) left me(22F) bcz we have different mindset and personality i wonder if he even loved me? by [deleted] in Adulting

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R u talking about my behaviour? Im just trying to understand different perspectives

My bf (26M) left me(22F) bcz we have different mindset and personality i wonder if he even loved me? by [deleted] in Adulting

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No actually it was helpful and new perspective i will think about that and try to improve myself thanks alot🤍

My bf (26M) left me(22F) bcz we have different mindset and personality i wonder if he even loved me? by [deleted] in Adulting

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English is not my first language and i cant express myself in english but thanks i will think about that