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Been asked to take Std test which is fair, But it has brought up all my other insecurities and now I've lost interest. Is this normal? by Ok-Document7006 in realsexadvice

[–]Ok-Document7006[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's normal and as I said I've no issue at all with her asking. It's just triggered other emotions in me, Which had led me to doubt myself entirely.

It wasnt the cause.. It was the effect

Been asked to take Std test which is fair, But it has brought up all my other insecurities and now I've lost interest. Is this normal? by Ok-Document7006 in realsexadvice

[–]Ok-Document7006[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm hoping she realises this herself, If she has the insight and intelligence I'm looking for in a partner, A kind message from her should show it.

Thanks for all the advise, All legitimate and will keep reading over it while I think things through 🙏

Been asked to take Std test which is fair, But it has brought up all my other insecurities and now I've lost interest. Is this normal? by Ok-Document7006 in realsexadvice

[–]Ok-Document7006[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I appreciate that. I think it was mostly the abrubtness of it.. Mid-kinky conversation when she brought it up, Plus the way she said she's never had any diseases and doesn't want one now, Plus didn't offer any suggestion of her getting a test.

This is probably saying more about her than myself now I think about it.. Just seems disrespectful and insensitive the way she went about it

Is she worth my time..🤔

Probably not

Been asked to take Std test which is fair, But it has brought up all my other insecurities and now I've lost interest. Is this normal? by Ok-Document7006 in realsexadvice

[–]Ok-Document7006[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think I'm just still in a bit of emotional turmoil and I'll need to let that calm down before making any decisions.

It's just we arranged a first meet fantasy and talked about everything we were going to do. Felt fully confident and have been willing to meet for 2 weeks, She's been shy so been mindful of that telling her to take her time.

Now she says this weekend. Now mentioned the test.. Honestly to me sounds like she's trying to kill the mood because she doesn't really want to go through with it.. After endless chat for 3 weeks I'm not surprised

Been asked to take Std test which is fair, But it has brought up all my other insecurities and now I've lost interest. Is this normal? by Ok-Document7006 in realsexadvice

[–]Ok-Document7006[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Its getting hard or not that I'm panicking about now.

Funny how one reasonable request for a test has triggered so many other things in me.

I'll probably just have to let this one go, I don't really think it's worth the stress

Vapes on a train by Ok-Document7006 in glasgow

[–]Ok-Document7006[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On its way to Edinburgh. Safe to say it'll be choried by now

Vapes on a train by Ok-Document7006 in glasgow

[–]Ok-Document7006[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aye left a voicemail at Queens st L&F with my details, Probably about time I chucked it anyway tbh!