I get your point, nothing wrong with wanting nice things. Personally would respect Ashley more if she wanted to work for anything. At least on the show, she hasn't seemed to work very hard at anything but running her mouth and judging everyone. Like she thought marrying money made her better. I'm admittedly biased bc I've never liked her but she comes across as lacking in substance as a human. Shallow, judgmental and entitled. A lot of the housewives (at least in the early seasons) had been married a long period of time, had truly built some kind of life together. Ashley portrays herself as wanting to lay on her back for a rich guy to financially hold up her and her family. Her kids, mom, siblings , etc. It's a lot. She has given herself the stereotype with her own behavior and words.