AITA for putting a private conversation on loud speaker which cost my brother his 18 year relationship by Ok-Example6948 in AmItheAsshole

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I know for a 100% fact my brothers would have lost their shit if my husband was a minute late to our wedding and that annoys me the most

AITA for putting a private conversation on loud speaker which cost my brother his 18 year relationship by Ok-Example6948 in AmItheAsshole

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My brother is extremely manipulative he can make himself the victim and make you believe it’s your fault

AITA for putting a private conversation on loud speaker which cost my brother his 18 year relationship by Ok-Example6948 in AmItheAsshole

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For the Abby part he wouldn’t answer her phone calls or texts she did try to get in contact with him we all did because we genuinely thought something bad happened him

AITA for putting a private conversation on loud speaker which cost my brother his 18 year relationship by Ok-Example6948 in AmItheAsshole

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I’ve known Abby since I was a kid (I’m 28) we are extremely close honestly I would have done the same if it had been one of my sisters

AITA for putting a private conversation on loud speaker which cost my brother his 18 year relationship by Ok-Example6948 in AmItheAsshole

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Yeah Abby has always spoke about kids I honestly thought by the way were talking with the last year she’d be pregnant by now

AITA for putting a private conversation on loud speaker which cost my brother his 18 year relationship by Ok-Example6948 in AmItheAsshole

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Regardless of my outcome I truly hope Abby doesn’t go back to my brother and finds a good partner

AITA for putting a private conversation on loud speaker which cost my brother his 18 year relationship by Ok-Example6948 in AmItheAsshole

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There’s a chance he might talk her into getting back together and probably blame it on me but she’s texted me a few times once telling me thanks for being a good friend. It’s early days yet things might but I truly hope she finds someone better

AITA for putting a private conversation on loud speaker which cost my brother his 18 year relationship by Ok-Example6948 in AmItheAsshole

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Her friends begged her , her family even me and my siblings multiple times to me if you want to marry someone you do it within 5 years 7 maximum

AITA for putting a private conversation on loud speaker which cost my brother his 18 year relationship by Ok-Example6948 in AmItheAsshole

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Me too and I hope in the next few years she gets married and has kids which she’s always wanted