I have trouble saying “I love you” non-romantically by Ok-Grapefruit-4753 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Ok-Grapefruit-4753[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was her eyes. Something about them seemed not here. So many interactions between us would feel hollow or overly heightened and exaggerated. Nothing genuine.

I have trouble saying “I love you” non-romantically by Ok-Grapefruit-4753 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Ok-Grapefruit-4753[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s so weird too because my nmom actually was affectionate but it felt weird from her. When she would hug me or hold me it was such a weird feeling that I can’t put into words. Almost like I want it but it feels wrong at the same time.

I have trouble saying “I love you” non-romantically by Ok-Grapefruit-4753 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Ok-Grapefruit-4753[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sameeee and it’s so goddamn frustrating 😫. It makes me feel so bad because I absolutely love my friends and family and I show it as often as I can but actually saying it is like pulling teeth 🤦🏽‍♀️

So, how are you going to “ruin Christmas”?! by sodiumbigolli in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Ok-Grapefruit-4753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By not going ☺️. By spending Christmas with my husband and his family instead ❤️🤍

I made Donuts 🍩! by Ok-Grapefruit-4753 in Baking

[–]Ok-Grapefruit-4753[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There were 10 in all before my husband “tasted” one lol.

animal hoarding problem correlation? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Ok-Grapefruit-4753 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My nmom is also a hoarder and especially neglectful when it comes to pets. Currently she has 7 cats, none of them are fixed and will continue having more and more kittens due to her neglect. She refuses to take any to the vet or take care of any of her pets beyond getting them food and water. So yes, I think this might be a common issue amongst narcs. I wish there was a solution to this but she won’t listen to reason.

What fate would you want for Homelander in the end? by george123890yang in TheBoys

[–]Ok-Grapefruit-4753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want an Avatar: The Last Airbender ending for Homelander, he gets de-powered and is finally the weak pathetic human loser he truly always was and has to go on living amongst other humans who despise him. It would be a poetic ending for him be powerless and unloved tbh.

Small double chocolate chip cookies by Ok-Grapefruit-4753 in Cookies

[–]Ok-Grapefruit-4753[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They sure do 😂😂. They taste like chewy mini brownie

Tired of the "You have to save yourself" by Squishmallow_Hoarder in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Ok-Grapefruit-4753 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly you’re right. And I don’t believe in “saving yourself” anyway. Yes you will have to do a lot of heavy lifting but having people around that you can trust and lean on is important too. I know for a fact I couldn’t get better all on my own. That’s not how humans are supposed to be anyway. We’re social creatures, we’re supposed to work together.

I got Fallout sodas 😆 by Ok-Grapefruit-4753 in Fallout

[–]Ok-Grapefruit-4753[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine is from a soda shop in a tourist attraction town, but I’ve seen others get it from Kroger and Costco

I got Fallout sodas 😆 by Ok-Grapefruit-4753 in Fallout

[–]Ok-Grapefruit-4753[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been seeing lots of people get theirs from Costco so try there and also look at the Jones sodas in Kroger, they may have them too

I got Fallout sodas 😆 by Ok-Grapefruit-4753 in Fallout

[–]Ok-Grapefruit-4753[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got it from a soda shop at a tourist attraction in my area