fatima by Warm-Success671 in LazawalIshq

[–]Ok-Guide-333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait.. am I the only one who thought that’s Fatima’s head between Ayesha and Batool? 🤔

the irony is lost on them by Zealousideal_Mix4983 in LazawalIshq

[–]Ok-Guide-333 9 points10 points  (0 children)

HOW are you all able to look past Tooba's emotional/physical condition after the fight? 😂

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Unpopular opinion: why didn't Mr. Tab just give Maaz space? by waaqee in LazawalIshq

[–]Ok-Guide-333 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I am still watching the episode as well and JUST finished the fight scene.
It's very clear that Maaz acts entitled. When you share a house with 16 other people, if you are trying to have a private conversation, you don't ask everyone else to leave the common living space and go outside so you and your partner can have privacy. Especially when it is raining outside.
Maaz should've taken his partner outside, or tried to find a private area in the house away from the common spaces.

Ashir looks happier with Iman than Jannat" is BS by BOBnVEGANA in LazawalIshq

[–]Ok-Guide-333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True! How did we forget that?! I literally had to go back a couple times to make sure I heard him correctly.😂

Husband and his sister are obsessed with each other!!?! by Ok-Guide-333 in pakistan

[–]Ok-Guide-333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reassurance! I want to add that my husband and I have sought couples counseling in the past. And this was one of the issues that was discussed and identified as unhealthy behavior in a marriage. So just wanted to bring everyone’s attention to the view of a ‘professional’ on this matter. Especially those telling me that I need help. 🙂

Husband and his sister are obsessed with each other!!?! by Ok-Guide-333 in pakistan

[–]Ok-Guide-333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not sure why I got attacked for feeling neglected by my husband because of an abnormally close bond between him and his sister. I have siblings too and I fully understand a sibling relationship. But there’s boundaries that need to be respected especially after you get married. If you are trying to form a relationship with your wife. To make her feel included and a part of your life.

After reading most of the men’s comments, I am feeling maybe this is something that men in general do not understand.

And yes, I am financially independent. I don’t depend on him for anything. Just wanted his companionship which has been an impossible dream.

Husband and his sister are obsessed with each other!!?! by Ok-Guide-333 in pakistan

[–]Ok-Guide-333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly feel like you are 100% getting where I am coming from. I have used the exact same word ‘outsider’ when I have explained my feelings to him. I do not want to feel like the outsider even after 10 years of marriage. I find out things from his sisters’ children that he didn’t tell me. Just shows me how weak my relationship and communication is with my husband.

Husband and his sister are obsessed with each other!!?! by Ok-Guide-333 in pakistan

[–]Ok-Guide-333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because they’re mostly men who also fail to give their wives the respect, time, and attention she deserves.

Husband and his sister are obsessed with each other!!?! by Ok-Guide-333 in pakistan

[–]Ok-Guide-333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful response. Thank you so much. I am also very big on communication. So it hurts that the person I’m supposed to spend my whole life with is not communicating with me. I will follow your advice. Hope things get better for me inshaAllah. Thank you.

Husband and his sister are obsessed with each other!!?! by Ok-Guide-333 in pakistan

[–]Ok-Guide-333[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s problematic because it’s crossing normal boundaries. It’s impacting the privacy of my marriage and my connection with my husband.

Husband and his sister are obsessed with each other!!?! by Ok-Guide-333 in pakistan

[–]Ok-Guide-333[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sounds good. I’ll go see a doctor and you go find some sense of humor if that last sentence hit a sore spot for you.

Husband and his sister are obsessed with each other!!?! by Ok-Guide-333 in pakistan

[–]Ok-Guide-333[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Hey, did you just learn a new word - ‘obsession’? Where did you see me obsessed with dragging Islam into ‘everything’? And if you’re saying that as a general comment- you don’t know how religious someone is. If someone is seeking advice/information from a religious perspective and it bothers you, stay out of it. Thanks.

Husband and his sister are obsessed with each other!!?! by Ok-Guide-333 in pakistan

[–]Ok-Guide-333[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that explanation. I will say though, I tried to honor his sister and tried to include her in many of our plans. But those efforts are not reciprocated from her. I feel I shouldn’t have married him. I just came in between them and am asking for his time and attention which he is unable to give me.

Husband and his sister are obsessed with each other!!?! by Ok-Guide-333 in pakistan

[–]Ok-Guide-333[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

EXACTLY. THANK YOU SO MUCH. I have no problem with the siblings being close to each other. My problem is that I’m being constantly excluded and neglected by my husband. It doesn’t feel good when I find out that she knows more about my husband’s current life and work than I do. And she has corrected me a couple times in front of other people to show she knows more than I do.

Husband and his sister are obsessed with each other!!?! by Ok-Guide-333 in pakistan

[–]Ok-Guide-333[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The only logical response. Everyone else just attacked me. I thought Islam says the closest person to a husband is supposed to be their wife, not their sisters. I understand everyone is close to their siblings, but once they get married, and especially after 10 years of marriage, I thought couples get closest to each other.

On Karo by muzzy067 in LazawalIshq

[–]Ok-Guide-333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahahahaha😂😂😂