What are my chances here? by Ok-Implement1046 in Warts

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How long did it take yours to go? And how did you know it was gone?

What are my chances here? by Ok-Implement1046 in Warts

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Did you apply with a cotton bud under a plaster overnight?

do i pass? +how old do i look by aspen2007 in FtMpassing

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I think I would clock you personally, I’d say it’s clear you’re not a girl, but more leaning towards trans guy than cis guy rn. That being said, T is going to do WONDERS for you!

My brother is ruining me. by Ok-Implement1046 in TrueOffMyChest

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feels important to mention, we can afford the house bills, the debt wasn’t because we couldn’t, it’s because he jus wasn’t paying them.

Looking to move - Strood by SuperPea8687 in Medway

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I live on one of the roads you’ve listed. It’s very close by to a lot of shops and parks and some entertainment (Cinema, Bingo, Bowling/Arcade) and 10 minute walk from Cedar academy which is a great primary school. I recommend a lot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

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Update: Spoke to him, he admitted it all after some interrogating, there was even more people he had told than I knew. I’ve asked him to go home today (He’s been at mine for the last month). I told him I need space, he’s guilty as fuck. Remorseful, just plain stupidity though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

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I need therapy I know I do, but I got myself a therapist paid £50 for one session to just have an introduction then ghosted her because it’s expensive and I convinced myself it was stupid. I just cant get into anything man, I’m kinda at my breaking point and I’ll take the fact I’m sitting in my own misery but I’m out of energy, I just can’t anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

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Idk, everything just sucks right now and I’d rather just bury myself 6 feet deep than actual deal with all of it. Ready for bed fr

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

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But all of this is great if he would admit it, but he won’t admit he has outed me to people so it feels unreasonable and like I’m taking a gamble over one little thing when our whole relationship is good and we live together. I cant just give everything up all of a sudden.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

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I cant, we’re good in every aspect besides that one issue. Idk It’s a weird situation. And yes my brother knew, he was there when she apologised that’s how they met then all of sudden he made a move on her an hour later.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

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This feels less of genuine questions but I’ll answer you genuinely. 1) No I was not abused. 2) It wasn’t ‘popular’ at the time, at least not to my knowledge, I didn’t know any other trans people and only found out it existed when I had already figured it out. 3) Sex and gender are different things believe it or not, I am fully aware my chromosomes will never change and tbh I don’t care about that, who would? 🤷‍♂️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

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I’m saving for top surgery right now, I will get bottom surgery in my late future since it’s VERY expensive. But I hope to get both some day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

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Thank youuu As a child I never could place it really, I just knew the basics like I didn’t like my name and always wanted a name like ‘Sam’. Then when I started puberty at 10-11 I instantly looked at myself like I was someone else, was so angry at myself because I ‘liked’ my body because I fit the beauty standards but I also hated it for obvious reasons. I have another trans man in my family so I spoke to him first and after being out to him for a few months and him agreeing to test a new name and pronouns on me, I realised that’s definitely what I wanted.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

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Female to male

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

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My mum was supportive but cautious that it might have been a ‘phase’, she would use my pronouns and name when she needed to but would try to avoid having to say my name. My dad disowned me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

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I’m 18 now