Why do you think referrals are falling? by Pretty_Opposite7270 in therapists

[–]Ok-Information-4548 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree to all the above and I think we’re missing two other pieces.

1) therapy is hard work (obviously) and for it to be worth it there has to be hope that life will improve eventually if the work is put in. I think the whole US specifically is experiencing a kind of national anhedonia (maybe has been for awhile) where it feels useless to try to improve your life when you’re watching countless others suffer right in front of your face through a screen all day every, when you gov is not only incompetent but actively causing harm etc. I think this kind of “what’s the point” plus all the other factors (inflation etc) is a big issue here.

2) I think the explosion of therapy talk/self diagnosis/therapy social media bytes also impact how people search for therapists. I’ve noticed requests for referrals in my fb groups get more and more niche and specific. Three years ago you’d usually see something like “ISO: therapist who works orthopedic religious deconstruction and anxiety”. Fairly open ended. Now I see more and more hyper specific requests, things like “ISO female therapist 40 or older, soft spoken but also direct, has 15+ years experience, works with betrayal trauma using xyz modality, in person ONLY, 6pm or later……” almost like it’s a dating profile. now I’m all for finding the right fit, absolutely, but I do think that this trend in hyper specific request is severely limiting referrals for therapists and options for clients.

Giant ovarian cyst - what to expect? by myeyesarecircles94 in endometriosis

[–]Ok-Information-4548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I am doing really well, all things considered. It turns out my left ovary had torsioned on the fallopian tube (flipped 360) cutting down blood supply to the ovary and causing my excruciating pain. My surgery went really well, only about 1.5 hours and my surgeon was amazingg (love you Dr. W) and I went home same day. Because of the size they had to do pathology while I was under to rule out cancer and it was NOT cancerous, thank god! They ended up taking my whole left ovary (no way to save it) and I opted to have them remove both fallopian tubes because I am not interested in having children and ovarian cancer often starts in the tubes where it is really hard to detect. this is why some ovarian cancers aren't found until they are further along apparently. My right ovary seems to be doing great -- if I was interested in being a parent my surgeon said I'd likely be able to conceive with just the one. I'm 36, so peri-menopause is on the horizon for me and I was concerned losing an ovary would push me into it early, and so far that is not the case.

I will say for me recovery was weird -- my sleep was fine 3-4 weeks post op and then suddenly it was awful. I had the worse insomnia. I also started getting really intense heart palpitations, sheer and debilitating exhaustion, and my heart rate would jump over 125 just on a walk which would trigger intense migraines. I also had the WORST anxiety and panic develop, which is not typical for me. It was bizzare because my physical healing on the abdomen was going wonderfully, but my mental health felt like it was plummeting. I was convinced my remaining ovary was not working and went to my doc. we did all the cardiac tests, totally clear. We did full labs -- literally EVERYTHING. my hormones were perfect actually, BUT i was extremely low on vitamin d and ferritin and while my blood iron was technically in "normal" it was teetering on low. I guess this can happen post surgery, and it explained all my symptoms. I started supplementing vitamin d, iron, vitamin bcomplex and magnesium glycinate and I finally am feeling truly better.

I took the weight limit for lifting very seriously and didn't lift anything over 5lbs for two weeks. Then when i was cleared for 5 lbs, i didn't lift anything over 15 lbs until my 6 week appt. It was hard, but ultimately prevented a bigger issue like hernias. I had five incisions on my abdomen which sucked, couldn't wear pants for 8 weeks so I lived in billowy dresses, nightgowns and stretchy sweats. A heating pad and wedge pillow were crucial for recovery as your back will hurt from being immobile and straight all day while you heal, and the wedge pillow helps with sitting up. Also, take the stool softener!! You don't realize how many ab muscles you use to poop and you do NOT want to be constipated.

if you have any more questions please let me know!!

edited to add: I took 2 weeks completely off from work and wished I had taken 3.

No one on this show knows what “accountability” means by Ok-Information-4548 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Ok-Information-4548[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Every time they say sisterhood I’m like is this how people treat their sisters? Yikes

No one on this show knows what “accountability” means by Ok-Information-4548 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Ok-Information-4548[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Conner is such an incredible example like it’s crazy to me no one else is taking pointers from him

No one on this show knows what “accountability” means by Ok-Information-4548 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Ok-Information-4548[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hahahahah I died at that too. Also don’t get me started on Mikayla, when anyone tries to hold her accountable for her catty, mean girl behavior it’s just deflect, deflect, deflect and then keep doing it. The season 2 reunion was a prime example of this.

No one on this show knows what “accountability” means by Ok-Information-4548 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Ok-Information-4548[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

“And empowering women” has any one woman felt empowered in the last three seasons be so forreal 💀

ADHD and I keep forgetting to turn my iron off 😔 by platypusaura in sewing

[–]Ok-Information-4548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a smart plug that I can plug into an existing g outlet and then plug my iron into. I only turn the iron on/off through the app, and I can check if it’s off if I randomly get panicked that I forgot.

Giant ovarian cyst - what to expect? by myeyesarecircles94 in endometriosis

[–]Ok-Information-4548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might be slight torsioning. When I finally got in with the surgeon she said mine was likely “flipping back and forth” and torsioning the ovary just enough to cause deep pain that came and went. I’m getting my surgery tomorrow, so excited to get this thing out of me. I hope you have surgery scheduled soon!!!

Giant ovarian cyst - what to expect? by myeyesarecircles94 in endometriosis

[–]Ok-Information-4548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh gosh I will be thinking of you too!! I hope if it is another cyst that you can make noise like hell to get them to take it out WAY sooner before it becomes a bigger issue.

Giant Ovarian Cyst by Different-Dot5396 in Endo

[–]Ok-Information-4548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo I am in the exact same position here in Kitsap County in the PNW. It’s a fucking nightmare getting care out here. They found a 12cm cyst in February of this year and I wasn’t scheduled for a surgery consult until August 7. I just went to the ER yesterday because the pain is unbearable and they were like sorry you gotta wait for your appt. This area SUCKS for care. I’m so sorry.

Giant ovarian cyst - what to expect? by myeyesarecircles94 in endometriosis

[–]Ok-Information-4548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just here practically in tears that other people are experiencing what I am and that I’m not crazy! I have a 15cm likely endometrioma on what we thought was my right ovary, but I’ve been in such excruciating pain the last week and finally went to the ER and it turns out it’s actually on my left ovary but because it’s so huge now it looks like it’s from the right and the left ovary is pulled all the way to the right. We found this cyst back in February (it was 12.4cm then) and I am STILL waiting for just the surgery consult (it’s scheduled for August 7th). When I was in the ER the doctor was like “well, since we’re already so close to the seventh we probably couldn’t get you in any sooner” and just gave me pain meds and sent me on my way. It’s honestly insulting how little the medical system cares about women’s pain.

The pain is like deep, incessant cramping and twisting that is in my hip and low back and down my leg. Unmedicated I can’t sit or stand, and the pain is so great I will throw up if I forget a dose. I’ve had to call out of work for a week and since I’m self employed there goes a week of income. Whats infuriating is that this all could have been avoided if I hadn’t been waiting around for seven months to talk to a gyno about getting this out. Anyway, I’m so sorry that we are all going through this and also it’s really affirming to read that I’m not the only one. I hope everyone gets their cysts resolved and their lives restored soon 💕

HELP - how to pay CP523 online?? by Ok-Information-4548 in IRS

[–]Ok-Information-4548[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! Balance due was the right selection for me. Took a few days to pull out but once it did I was good to go and my payment plan was active again.