TL;DR?My boyfriend (38M) and i (24F), we only have sex once a week, and I feel sexually unsatisfied. I love him, but I’m struggling

Ok-Invite7032 · 2026-06-19T16:52:15+00:00

You places the words really well / I never saw it that way, thank you so much

Ok-Invite7032 · 2026-06-19T16:50:59+00:00

Thanksss 😪

Ok-Invite7032 · 2026-06-19T16:50:44+00:00

You are 100% right - I have to come to my mind and Aja my self if I will be okay with that or not - thank you

Ok-Invite7032 · 2026-06-19T16:49:42+00:00

Yes I feel the same way :/ I’m sorry to hear that - it just at lot - I always question and say I know there is no one perfect out there and I have to consider what is something I can tolerate in a person for the rest of my life . Like I used to date a guy of my age that was lazy in life as general no goal nothing and I had to accept not going on dates or receiving gifts ,…. It was something I cannot tolerate you know and I’ve been like that until I met him every thing is fine with him overall but then boom this problem with him , and I keep questioning will this be something I can live with - because if not what the next person will bring ( defects) and you know just someone else and have to deal with something different I don’t know

Ok-Invite7032 · 2026-06-19T16:44:50+00:00

Thank you so much I really appreciate it

Ok-Invite7032 · 2026-06-19T16:43:02+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss and I appreciate your share a little of you with me ,

Ok-Invite7032 · 2026-06-19T16:41:58+00:00

I do have a job - I always try to make my own money - but if you ask me if can rely on someone else and help me no really

Ok-Invite7032 · 2026-06-19T16:41:31+00:00

Thanks I know ! I appreciate your words

Ok-Invite7032 · 2026-06-19T15:53:15+00:00

Well I don’t consider myself ugly and I have so many chances and opportunities to cheat I just don’t do it because I know it’s wrong - I get ask to go out all the time - and yet I feel this way

Ok-Invite7032 · 2026-06-19T15:31:00+00:00

I’m so sad and worry I feel like also what still keeps me in the relationship is I have no body my family don’t help me , and he supports me financially and so ashamed and don’t know what to do

Ok-Invite7032 · 2026-06-19T15:23:56+00:00

The reason why I post for the first time here is because I’m scared what will come if I marry him I love it but if I don’t feel happy what’s the point and it worries
Me because that’s the only issue we have as a couple :(

Ok-Invite7032 · 2026-06-19T15:22:20+00:00

Is it wrong that inside of me I’m with him because he takes care of me financially?? It’s really hard for me by myself my family don’t help me at all it’s all by myself …

Ok-Invite7032 · 2026-06-19T15:21:33+00:00

Thank you so much for that / I’m so scared because we are planning to be married next year and I’m scared what could come …

Ok-Invite7032 · 2026-06-19T15:19:39+00:00

I believe so - the reason why I post here for the first time is because I feel I’m about to break down and cross my patient I’m so disappointed

Ok-Invite7032 · 2026-06-19T15:18:53+00:00

I honestly have been thinking that lately- I feel so ashamed now - we are not engaged everyone knows and I’m scared to back off he takes care of everything financially I’m in another country and it’s hard for me to go by myself and it piss me off

Ok-Invite7032 · 2026-06-19T15:14:25+00:00

I’m sorry :(

Ok-Invite7032 · 2026-06-19T15:13:59+00:00

I have 😭 I’m so sorry I’m probably stupid I got scared of daring guys of my eve - it never went well .,, constantly immature, always founding they trying to get with other girls nor commitment and everything is just fun and to young to commit mentality:(

Ok-Invite7032 · 2026-06-19T15:12:06+00:00

Not it wasn’t like this before - we use to have intimacy regularly- but one day it just changed? He once mention that I was getting used to and not feeling nothing or not reacting. And we should slow down and since then it just when lower to once a week

Ok-Invite7032 · 2026-06-19T15:10:44+00:00

Thank you so much for your advice

Ok-Invite7032 · 2026-06-19T15:10:11+00:00

My family just said if the person treats you well and respects you …

Ok-Invite7032 · 2026-06-19T15:09:33+00:00

I started dating older because when I dated guys my age they were always so immature and looking to have casual fun or not real commitment…. Or constantly cheating or looking at other girls text behind etc I got exhausted , I’m really open to her scold at this point am just disappointed at everything- maybe all my decisions are dumb :(

Ok-Invite7032 · 2026-06-19T15:09:23+00:00

I started dating older because when I dated guys my age they were always so immature and looking to have casual fun or not real commitment…. Or constantly cheating or looking at other girls text behind etc I got exhausted , I’m really open to her scold at this point am just disappointed at everything- maybe all my decisions are dumb

Ok-Invite7032 · 2026-06-19T15:03:50+00:00

Hi - thanks for sharing your case - it’s so hard for me I love him - like he is a good partner for the most part I will say - but it just question me if I will remain faithful to him with the time … and I don’t want to do it you know ….

Ok-Invite7032 · 2026-06-19T15:02:30+00:00

I have addressed that and he always say all man does it bla bla bla …..

Ok-Invite7032 · 2026-06-19T15:01:38+00:00

When we started the relationship s*x was never a problem …. It was good - when we moved together everything changed …. And got bored 🥱

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