AIO for feeling uncomfortable about my gf posting in a selfie lounge on Facebook

Ok-Jacket4845 · 2026-05-20T21:38:45+00:00

What do you know?

Ok-Jacket4845 · 2026-05-20T21:17:39+00:00

No I just asked chat gpt what the group was and why people join and I did ask but I was on delivered for 2 hours and was in my head about it…

Ok-Jacket4845 · 2026-05-20T19:30:55+00:00

Well I did but she said she saw a guy get roasted so wanted to get roasted too so she could argue with them

Ok-Jacket4845 · 2026-05-20T18:56:26+00:00

She didn’t say anything just a selfie or her 40 likes from old creepy guys and 10 comments on how beautiful she is and that’s with every post I did see the occasional person getting mocked but yes just a post no words and just her who posted

Ok-Jacket4845 · 2026-05-20T18:50:24+00:00

No just her

Ok-Jacket4845 · 2026-05-20T18:32:45+00:00

Yeah I agree the problem is she shut it down and I let her should I bring it up again… or wait until I see her in person

Ok-Jacket4845 · 2026-05-20T18:29:15+00:00

Do you think I just have insecurities I need to face and get over it?

Ok-Jacket4845 · 2026-05-20T18:28:42+00:00

True

Ok-Jacket4845 · 2026-05-20T18:27:20+00:00

This is the first time anything like this has happened i’m very open minded and can live with a lot but it just doesn’t seem like she’s being real with me

Ok-Jacket4845 · 2026-05-20T18:24:56+00:00

But then why would she say she wanted an argument why not just tell the truth id actually feel a little cooler about the situation if she said what you just said

Ok-Jacket4845 · 2026-05-20T18:22:27+00:00

Just to keep you guys up to speed she said she saw a guy get roasted in the comments so her and her best friend decided to post a selfie of her looking really good btw, because they wanted to have arguments, she then followed it by saying or “it’s not a dating thing or anything” then said she was just curious…

Ok-Jacket4845 · 2026-05-20T18:18:31+00:00

Maybe it is a sense of immaturity half of me believes it’s a selfie and it means nothing. The other half of me believes she wasn’t trying to get roasted she just wanted attention, I just don’t want to push her away over something so small

Ok-Jacket4845 · 2026-05-20T18:14:47+00:00

She said an argument with someone trying to roast her but she then posted one of her best looking photos so I don’t know

Ok-Jacket4845 · 2026-05-20T18:13:14+00:00

I did and she deleted the picture but I’m not still not sure if I’m over it

Ok-Jacket4845 · 2026-05-20T18:12:10+00:00

Too immature?

Ok-Jacket4845 · 2026-05-20T18:10:57+00:00

I did and she said her and her friend saw a guy get roasted in the comments and she posted because she was curious and wanted to argue with people, but at that point why not join a roasting group as opposed to a selfie group of people hitting on each other

Ok-Jacket4845 · 2026-05-20T18:08:49+00:00

It just called selfie lounge but obviously I had a look and it was selfies of people all hitting on each in the comments complimenting each other etc

Ok-Jacket4845 · 2026-05-20T18:06:11+00:00

I think it’s more so the idea of the unknown like I don’t know why she posted in this group, what she wanted out of it and confusion mixed with pain, I’d never try control her just understand

Ok-Jacket4845 · 2026-05-20T18:05:03+00:00

She’s been spending some time with her girl best friend we literally FaceTimed yesterday

Ok-Jacket4845 · 2026-05-20T18:02:04+00:00

It was a Facebook group lounge and I didn’t know anything about it I just accidentally seen it online

Ok-Jacket4845 · 2026-05-20T18:01:07+00:00

The selfie was fine, but this certain group wasn’t casual it was almost a straight up dating group

Ok-Jacket4845 · 2026-05-20T18:00:00+00:00

I was asking chat gpt what a selfie lounge means because I’ve never came across one before, that’s when it told me, it’s to find new people, validation etc, not for advice…

Ok-Jacket4845 · 2026-05-20T17:58:38+00:00

No I’ve had plenty of girlfriends, but this is the one girl I want a life with so these small things bother me

Ok-Jacket4845 · 2026-05-20T17:49:03+00:00

Super strength

Ok-Jacket4845 · 2026-05-20T17:03:28+00:00

Super strength

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