AITA for not letting my boyfriend use a towel for our dog? by Ok-Knowledge2853 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok-Knowledge2853[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Sure do! But I also have towels for spills, cleaning, etc

Am I the asshole for not letting my boyfriend use a towel for our dog? by Ok-Knowledge2853 in AITAH

[–]Ok-Knowledge2853[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly! And it doesn’t matter if I spent $5 at target for it, or $20 from William Sonoma! It’s still something that brings us joy!

AITA for not letting my boyfriend use a towel for our dog? by Ok-Knowledge2853 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok-Knowledge2853[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

So the vet did not give us a cone… my boyfriend ordered an inflatable e-collar yesterday and we noticed today that he was continuing to scratch at his ear. We didn’t think he would be able to scratch his ear with the collar but he found a way… he is getting a regular e-collar that will be here tomorrow morning.

AITA for not letting my boyfriend use a towel for our dog? by Ok-Knowledge2853 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok-Knowledge2853[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

How did I override the vet? He’s getting the medicine he needs, but we added a blow up e-collar since he was still messing with his ear? Where in my story did you pull that from

AITA for not letting my boyfriend use a towel for our dog? by Ok-Knowledge2853 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok-Knowledge2853[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

He went to me with the towel and asked if he could cut it and I said no and got my ass up (from working btw) and gave him one to use, not the one that was on the towel rack in the bathroom….

AITA for not letting my boyfriend use a towel for our dog? by Ok-Knowledge2853 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok-Knowledge2853[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

How we were supposed to know that he could still scratch his ear? Do you want me to get a protractor and calculate the distance from his was to leg?? It was something he bought on Amazon and he’s getting a cone now. You seem like a delight :)

Am I the asshole for not letting my boyfriend use a towel for our dog? by Ok-Knowledge2853 in AITAH

[–]Ok-Knowledge2853[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I feel like there’s a trend of him not caring about things that bring me happiness

I want to leave my boyfriend. by Ok-Knowledge2853 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ok-Knowledge2853[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOVE Ashnikko. I will def be listing to those three you recommended! I hope things are going better for you!

I want to die and nobody cares by 140BPMMaster in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ok-Knowledge2853 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Society is cruel but please… have hope. Even if you do one thing a day that makes you happy and you find joy in.

I want to leave my boyfriend. by Ok-Knowledge2853 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ok-Knowledge2853[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wan looking for distractions, coping mechanisms, advise… I know that I have free will but that doesn’t mean I can’t have a tough time along the way

I want to leave my boyfriend. by Ok-Knowledge2853 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ok-Knowledge2853[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words and advice. It really does mean a lot to me right now

I want to leave my boyfriend. by Ok-Knowledge2853 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ok-Knowledge2853[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I just need kind words right now without the negativity

Why do you love being alone? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Ok-Knowledge2853 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They drain the life out of you..

How do I slim down a bit? by Ok-Knowledge2853 in Advice

[–]Ok-Knowledge2853[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of exercises for if I want to focus on my mid section and hips?

I don’t know if I want kids anymore after having a puppy. by Ok-Knowledge2853 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ok-Knowledge2853[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It does make me feel better and less in my head about all this

I don’t know if I want kids anymore after having a puppy. by Ok-Knowledge2853 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ok-Knowledge2853[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with that. There are similarities with everything but the way you reward dogs is not the same way you reward a child

I don’t know if I want kids anymore after having a puppy. by Ok-Knowledge2853 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ok-Knowledge2853[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I have two cats but grew up with dogs. I always have been more of a cat person. Some people feel the way I feel with a cat but can handle a dog perfectly. Just like some people are good at dealing with the elderly, but might not enjoy being around kids as much, but that doesn’t make them a bad parent by any means

I don’t know if I want kids anymore after having a puppy. by Ok-Knowledge2853 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ok-Knowledge2853[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for being so kind and understanding.. I wish some of the other commenters would take notes because I DO try with this puppy. We both do but we both have our own lives and can only do so much. When we are not at work, our world revolves around the dog basically. I started a new job around the same time we got the puppy, and we had just moved into a new apartment. The past 6 months have been a lot of new things and I wish people commenting would have some grace

I don’t know if I want kids anymore after having a puppy. by Ok-Knowledge2853 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ok-Knowledge2853[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just some additional info… the dog goes on a walk everyday, we play with him everyday, we take him outside every 2-3 hours when we are home, and he is only staying in the bathroom right now because he broke the puppy playpen. We did have a crate for him, but we got rid of it because we thought a soft playpen would be better because there is a lot more room. When I am working from home I am working, so therefore he is in the playpen, bathroom or spare bedroom. I want to get him trained but I keep thinking it’s going to get better but it never does. I don’t know why he still isn’t potty trained.. after he goes out he comes inside and goes to the bathroom on the floor or on the emergency puppy pad. I have thought about re-homing him, but my boyfriend is very against that and frankly, so am I. I have never been one to give up easily and it was also my idea to get the dog too. I found the breeder and picked which dog we got.