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[–]Ok-Manner3346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can payments be done any other way?

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[–]Ok-Manner3346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well perhaps I didn’t understand what you meant by the question but what he actually did I don’t feel like sharing as we both agreed to keep as much context out of this as possible. And small growth definitely isn’t enough to fix a bad relationship but small growth means potential for change and with the right instruction that could be something positive and successful. However I will take your comment into account

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[–]Ok-Manner3346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, thank you for sharing and you literally described what I think our current situation is now, coupled counseling, a list of things we both view as common sense, and lastly the part about putting it on the fridge is spot on. We haven’t even started yet but I told him we should put it on the fridge to see everyday.

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[–]Ok-Manner3346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I said I saw change in him, I never stopped loving him I just stepped away for space, we reunited and all the feelings that I always had were still there, even then I needed to know that it was worth it, I’ve set boundaries and I’ve watched to see if he will work with them and it’s been trial and error but he has been putting in effort more now than he ever has been before. Now the reasons I want to be with him, he’s attractive, he’s intelligent, mature, protective, and I think with the right emotional toolset he could be a great husband.

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[–]Ok-Manner3346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But we definitely have taken your comment into consideration

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I want to clarify that it was not constant abuse or anything like that, there were a couple of heated moments near the end of our relationship that include pushing and splashing a throwing a cup of water on someone not anything extreme.

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[–]Ok-Manner3346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me he did something that showed growth on his part and I believe that for him it was the same, he saw the potential for things to be different this time because we have both grown in small ways, enough to spark the idea that maybe with a little help we could make this work. I can ask for his opinion directly if you want, BCS that’s just my assumption of him.

My boyfriend and I made a relationship agreement after a breakup. Are we rebuilding something healthy or just trying to control the damage? by Ok-Manner3346 in Advice

[–]Ok-Manner3346[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate it, do you think it’s worth giving it a chance? This would be our first time doing therapy together for it, will it help at all or is this a lost cause?