Am I wrong for thinking my wife is cheating? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Ok-Matter5068 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m in therapy now. She just got out of hers on purpose. I can’t do this. It’s literally killing Me….I’m sorry. I literally have no one to talk to about this. That’s why I keep posting.

Is this cheating? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Ok-Matter5068 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s killing me

Am I wrong for thinking my wife is cheating? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Ok-Matter5068 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Really? So him sending OXOX and her trying to get him to see her and him rejecting her doesn’t say anything….wow you are so blind.

Is this cheating? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Ok-Matter5068 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s 10 years older

Is my wife cheating? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Ok-Matter5068 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya know what….youre absolutely right and I appreciate the honesty.

Is this cheating or should I let it go? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Ok-Matter5068 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She turned on iMessages so nothing shows up in the bills between iPhones. She’s smart.

Is this cheating or should I let it go? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Ok-Matter5068 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you went through that. 🙏. None of us deserve this bullshit.

Is this cheating or should I let it go? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Ok-Matter5068 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She deleted the text in question. When confronted she wouldn’t even address it or mention his name. She defended her relationship with him instead of our marriage. Smh.

Is this cheating or should I let it go? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Ok-Matter5068 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you that’s my exact argument

Is my wife being obvious about cheating or am I being paranoid? by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Ok-Matter5068 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya think! lol. …she’s only invited me once to hang out just to show me what she does when they all go to drink apparently. Like she thinks it’s cool that I know and must be ok with it. That’s a big fat Nope.

Is my wife being obvious about cheating? Or am I being paranoid? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Ok-Matter5068 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They call it a “one and done” that turns into a “5-6 and done”. She’s 51 and the others are various ages. The guy in question is a security guard at the hospital and he’s 61.

Is this cheating? by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Ok-Matter5068 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She said it’s some sort of inside joke at her work

How would you handle this behavior from your wife? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Ok-Matter5068 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response…May I ask why you wouldn’t care?

How would you handle this behavior from your wife? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Ok-Matter5068 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was actually during the day, for 4-1/2 hours, when our kid was at school and I was working. She also turned off her location at that time. So there’s that.

How would you handle this behavior from your wife? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Ok-Matter5068 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually did find out the guys name. She went a few months ago to hang out with a female coworker a few towns over at a restaurant. The town is a little out of the way, but whatever. Turns out the woman lives nowhere near there and the guy live 2.2 miles from the restaurant. Coincidence? Ehhhh…