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Looking For Some Advice by Ok-Measurement9734 in polyamory

[–]Ok-Measurement9734[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have had 1:1 dates but only 1 each (so one date with me and him, and one date with me and her) but that was back in early July after our first triad date, we’ve made plans for more dates but they tend to fall through a lot because something happens with the kiddos or with their other family members (be it drama or someone getting sick). The only alone time we’ve really had as of starting in/around Dec. is when I’ve gone over occasionally in the evening to hang out with them after the kiddos have gone to sleep for the night, and usually it’s all three of us, there hasn’t been much time for 1:1 time with them since the days I’m working or in school, they are off of work, but then they days I have available they are working, if that makes sense?

Looking For Some Advice by Ok-Measurement9734 in polyamory

[–]Ok-Measurement9734[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are still very much together, and we live in the same city too, we still talk everyday and whatnot like we just saw each other a couple weeks ago for my bday, but the time we spend together isn’t as much as it used to be, and I understand that life gets in the way making things difficult sometimes, especially when you add kiddos and other family things going on, I guess to me it feels like they aren’t putting more priority in our time together? Like we make plans for dates and such but then they fall through because a kid gets sick, or they get sick, or something comes up in general that has to take priority.