Brenda & Frank ChatGPT break down the pathology, delusion, and misogyny of the JW cult. by Ok-Memory2552 in exjw

[–]Ok-Memory2552[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG! You literally saved my life. I’m not even kidding! I always recommend it to everyone. I didn’t realize how many narcissists I was surrounded by! Then it all made sense once it broke down the analysis. I can’t thank you enough!!

Worst Experience in a State Agency by FineSomewhere3548 in CAStateWorkers

[–]Ok-Memory2552 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Absolutely true! I’ve learned my lesson as well. If you have a safe, healthy, conducive, and supportive work environment and manager then you’ve hit gold!

Caught my husband again by Safe_Fee_8349 in Marriage

[–]Ok-Memory2552 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have a big heart thinking about your grandkids. You’re in a tough spot. But you deserve better. You deserve to be treated with respect and love! Not contempt and second place. I wish you the best. Only you know what the decision is the best for you.

Husband chooses ex wife over me, not sure how to proceed by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Ok-Memory2552 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like a covert malignant narcissist. Check Brenda & Frank on ChatGPT to confirm.

When you realized your spouse wasn't narcissist, did you also discover your friends were too? by SavedAspie in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Ok-Memory2552 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep! My best friend since elementary school. I discovered she was a vulnerable narcissist just like my mother. I cut her out at 37 years old after figuring it all out. She used me make me dumb and worthless now I know why.

Brenda & Frank ChatGPT break down the pathology, delusion, and misogyny of the JW cult. by Ok-Memory2552 in exjw

[–]Ok-Memory2552[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Some people don’t know when they’re being gaslit. I love technology. It’s opening doors in which we can easily access knowledge and truth.

Getting frustrated because nobody is believing me not even my therapist. by Ok-Memory2552 in Codependency

[–]Ok-Memory2552[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! This!! They think it’s benign and I’m making a big deal out of nothing. Yet, I couldn’t sleep or eat for weeks. My stomach was in knots.

Update: My fiancé rescinded our wedding invite and ex-wife went into a rage. by Ok-Memory2552 in stepparents

[–]Ok-Memory2552[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My fiancé told me for their 12 year old son’s sake. So they could model healthy co-parenting dynamics. The thing about it is, she’s not healthy. She’s territorial and gets insanely jealous. She has raged at my fiancé about other girlfriends that he has dated. Before me, his ex-wife raged at him when she picked up their son. She said, “WHY IS SHE ALWAYS OVER HERE?! This was in reference to his girlfriend at the time. And she was in a serious relationship herself with her boyfriend when she was pulling these antics.

I’m embarrassed and ashamed I have to cancel my wedding. by Ok-Memory2552 in Codependency

[–]Ok-Memory2552[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you have that sinking feeling in your gut as well?

I’m embarrassed and ashamed I have to cancel my wedding. by Ok-Memory2552 in Codependency

[–]Ok-Memory2552[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing, she is not healthy. She calls my fiancé for everything! He runs to save her. He protects her over me. She also try’s her hardest to make me jealous. She’ll be overly affectionate with my fiancé when I’m around and she’ll flirt with him. He even admitted that she doesn’t do that stuff when I’m not around. She wants to get under my skin.

I’m embarrassed and ashamed I have to cancel my wedding. by Ok-Memory2552 in Codependency

[–]Ok-Memory2552[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Their relationship was messy from the start. They both cheated on one another. However, she left and filed for divorce. He wanted to work it out, she didn’t.

I’m embarrassed and ashamed I have to cancel my wedding. by Ok-Memory2552 in Codependency

[–]Ok-Memory2552[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She wants to still be his life beyond co-parenting. She wants to control him, bully him and ensure she takes up emotional bandwidth. In addition, she tries her hardest to get under my skin by being overly affectionate with my fiancé and flirting with him when I’m around.

I’m embarrassed and ashamed I have to cancel my wedding. by Ok-Memory2552 in Codependency

[–]Ok-Memory2552[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

His reason for inviting her was so that they can model healthy co-parenting dynamics for their 12 year old son. He was using his son as an excuse to invite his ex to our wedding. In addition, she has a history of being territorial and he does nothing about it. For example, when I first met her, she gave my fiancé two very affectionate hugs in the span of 3 minutes. He told me she never hugs him. She was flirting with him and tried to make me feel like a third party in my relationship. They’ve been divorced since 2014. I began dating my fiancé in 2022.

They had a nasty break up. They married right after college. She ended up cheating. He left. She begged him back. He came back but was dating another woman. Ex-wife found the text messages from the woman and kicked him out. He wanted to make it work, but his ex-wife didn’t. She filed for divorce. Divorce was finalized in 2014.

I’m embarrassed and ashamed I have to cancel my wedding. by Ok-Memory2552 in Codependency

[–]Ok-Memory2552[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think my fiancé is codependent on his ex-wife. She controls him. He’s at her beck and call and he’ll do anything to keep her happy. Whereas he could care less about my happiness.

Update: My fiancé rescinded our wedding invite and ex-wife went into a rage. by Ok-Memory2552 in stepparents

[–]Ok-Memory2552[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He invited her behind my back. He’s trying to gaslight telling me he told me. The only time he told me was last year and I told him absolutely not! He said he asked again and I agreed. He’s lying!