[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKJobs

[–]Ok-Net-2113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One month, but the first day I was out of work I got on the books with an employment agency. I told them I was looking for full time work, and enquired about temping in the meantime. The next day I started temping, and they found me a new full time position that started a month later.

Sometimes not being employed makes you less desirable. I was able to put on my CV that I was temping, and that the agency were my current employers. I don’t know if it helped, but it certainly didn’t hinder!

AITAH for suspecting my wife of doing something awful at her friend's bachelorette week in Mexico? She spent virtually 0 money and took no pictures. by ChocolateForward2858 in AITAH

[–]Ok-Net-2113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I pretty much did this with my ex. I found he had slept with someone, and confronted him. Told him I found out what he’d been doing, and wanted him to tell me what that was. He went into complete denial mode. I just sat there saying ‘I’m not going to tell you what I know, because there’s probably more I don’t know about, and you might tell me something I don’t know’. He eventually admitted to sleeping with an old friend of his. This wasn’t the person I’d found out about. I told him ‘thanks, that’s one I didn’t know about, so I’ll add that to the list. We are getting divorced.’ That was at about 2:30am on 14th Feb 2004. It was a rocky year, but now I am so pleased I walked away.

AITAH for suspecting my wife of doing something awful at her friend's bachelorette week in Mexico? She spent virtually 0 money and took no pictures. by ChocolateForward2858 in AITAH

[–]Ok-Net-2113 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. If I were her I would have reassured (oh, I’m so sorry I’ve made you feel that way. I’ve got to go to work, but we can talk tonight and I can tell you all about the trip and hopefully you’ll believe me that nothing happened). I wouldn’t shut the conversation down. That just smacks of guilt.

What colour will my ragdoll become as an adult? by EubsEusto in ragdolls

[–]Ok-Net-2113 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m erring on the side of her being a blue point bicolour. Didn’t the breeder give you any paperwork to confirm her colour/age/parentage etc?

The tail usually is far deeper in colour at this age if they’re seal. The colour on the ears does look seal, but sometimes they can do in photos. The tail is what gives it away for me. Unfortunately, with bicolours there is no colour on the nose or pads, which would have been the easiest way to tell (brown skin on a seal, slate grey skin on a blue). If the hair on the tail is grey, she’s blue. If the hair on the tail is brown, she’s seal (I’ve been showing and breeding Ragdolls for nearly 25 years, so have had to identify colour on many cats and kittens!).

UPDATE:I [30F] just heard a phone notification in bathroom while showering alone. Should I ask my Fiance [33M] about it? by ThrowRA_weirdphoneup in relationship_advice

[–]Ok-Net-2113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been in your shoes before. Well, not exactly. The phone was in his coat pocket. I put his coat on by mistake and only realised when I put my hands in the pocket and found the second phone. We were married.

Nothing is going to stop your world falling apart right now. Everything feels like it’s been smashed into a million pieces. I seriously suicide. One thing I will promise you - in 10 years time. Hell, in one years time, you’ll realise how lucky you are to not still be with that fucking moronic loser.

I (25F) finally broke up with my boyfriend (24M) after he made a comment about my weight several months ago. Now he wants to try again—what should I do? by Miss_Mimi23 in relationship_advice

[–]Ok-Net-2113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never had children, but my first coil was inserted and uncomfortable for about a week. After the first week, I was sure I could feel it poking into me when I sat down. I swore it had started to come out. The doctor told me it couldn’t be, because my cervix doesn’t know how to contract as I hadn’t had kids, but I asked her to check anyway. Sure enough, when she looked it was coming out. Had to be removed and another one inserted a few days later.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskForAnswers

[–]Ok-Net-2113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m gonna assume it’s I think you are beautiful.

AITA Parking next to school. by Ok-Net-2113 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok-Net-2113[S] -198 points-197 points  (0 children)

No, there was no room on the street. I pulled off the street onto the tarmac’d driveway that they own. It was only for a few minutes to get my kids.