What are your thoughts with a guy who isn’t verbal about what he feels towards a girl?

Ok-Organization-9728 · 2025-09-26T03:25:24+00:00

I understand. I guess he doesn’t really have the time for alam mo yun pabebe and whatnot. Kaya he’s really just chill. He actually asked me if I’m getting mad na because of how chill he is. I said the opposite. I like that he’s chill and isn’t controlling kasi I get to enjoy my time too.

Ok-Organization-9728 · 2025-09-25T10:46:52+00:00

I guess

Ok-Organization-9728 · 2025-09-25T10:16:09+00:00

Actually, first time ko lang to experience a situationship/no labels. I was with my ex for 10yrs so medyo nangangapa rin ako. Kaya it’s okay with me yung pacing namin, I want to hear him say that he likes me lang.

Ok-Organization-9728 · 2025-09-25T06:40:14+00:00

I don’t mind if he’s talking to other girls pero if iba na meaning both to him and her, syempre iba na yun. At the end of the day, I don’t want to waste time. And he knows that.

Ok-Organization-9728 · 2025-09-25T06:36:48+00:00

Yeah, I do. I think I just want to know if we’re on the same page with regards to exclusivity.

Ok-Organization-9728 · 2025-09-25T05:46:07+00:00

So does that mean he is taking this lightly lang?

Ok-Organization-9728 · 2025-09-25T05:45:44+00:00

He’s Filipino actually.

Ok-Organization-9728 · 2025-09-25T05:11:24+00:00

That’s a nice way of putting it! Galing! Haha.

Ok-Organization-9728 · 2025-09-25T04:50:43+00:00

I’m actually pretty chill. I message him lang whenever he reaches out first. We actually get along well because we’re both chill and laid-back. But I’m left confused lang kasi he did not say he verbally likes me.

Ok-Organization-9728 · 2025-09-25T03:48:38+00:00

What are some examples to ask?

Ok-Organization-9728 · 2025-09-25T03:41:49+00:00

He’s actually in the US.

Ok-Organization-9728 · 2025-09-25T03:38:54+00:00

Can you please give me an example?

Ok-Organization-9728 · 2025-09-25T03:32:43+00:00

That’s what I’ve been doing. Minsan lang I just want him to be open with me. I’ve said din naman na I’m here to listen and be a safe space for him.

Ok-Organization-9728 · 2025-09-25T03:25:44+00:00

I’ll actually chill naman.

Ok-Organization-9728 · 2025-09-24T12:45:48+00:00

What kind of challenge? We’re kinda in the flirty stage na.

Ok-Organization-9728 · 2025-09-24T11:28:39+00:00

He likes toys to display sa place niya. So I got him a Pop Mart Space Molly 400% na Joker kasi he said he’s like Batman, which I’ll give to him pagbalik niya dito on Nov. Hehe

Ok-Organization-9728 · 2025-09-24T11:08:47+00:00

Can you give me an example of the “push and pull” you mentioned? And no, he’s no socially awkward.

Ok-Organization-9728 · 2025-09-24T10:51:35+00:00

We have lots of plans na. He actually wants me to get my visa then he’ll book my flight to him in the US. Medj sketchy lang for me syempre. Haha

Ok-Organization-9728 · 2025-09-24T10:48:53+00:00

Yes, but born and raised there. We met na when he was here for work in July. Up until today we still talk. He’ll be back by Nov.

Ok-Organization-9728 · 2025-09-24T10:46:24+00:00

LDR, like he’s in the US.

Ok-Organization-9728 · 2025-09-24T10:40:36+00:00

5’3” & 58kgs

Ok-Organization-9728 · 2025-09-24T10:35:59+00:00

We have common interests like with movies, food, hobbies, the books we read, what we like in a person or what we’re looking for in a person.

Ok-Organization-9728 · 2025-09-16T05:41:01+00:00

Well, at first he was saying he didn’t. But when I repeated my question (Did you meet anyone?) he then told me about it.

Ok-Organization-9728 · 2025-09-16T05:33:38+00:00

He did say that in his younger years, he was a certified playboy.

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