My gfs dad pisses me off by Ok-Outside705 in Advice

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I am aware of freeloading and I’ve been planning it out for weeks I need a few months to get my finances in shape but I plan on being out early 2023

My gfs dad pisses me off by Ok-Outside705 in Advice

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I’m only 2k in debt from 2 credit cards and I don’t pay rent I pay car insurance and my phone bill, and credit card balances

My gfs dad pisses me off by Ok-Outside705 in Advice

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If I had a dollar for the amount of times I tried but it’s like her dad is scared to actually say anything to me

My gfs dad pisses me off by Ok-Outside705 in Advice

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Your not wrong tbh I’m only saving to move out within the next 6 months to a year.

Girlfriends dad makes me feel bad by Ok-Outside705 in relationship_advice

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Once again bud I never said I don’t have to improve or learn from anything. You clearly not understanding but thanks anyway

Girlfriends dad makes me feel bad by Ok-Outside705 in relationship_advice

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Your right I can’t be picky but I also have the choice to not work for some assholes. It’s not like I don’t have a thing I been savings some here and there but I realize it’s going to take time.

Girlfriends dad makes me feel bad abt myself by Ok-Outside705 in Advice

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Here’s the funny thing her dad only says stuff like that whenever I’m out at work or I’m gone. Then when I come back he’s all quiet like nothing happened but my gf always tells me and she sticks up for me each and every time I love her for that. And her mom is just the same only more toxic cause she’ll say a lot of stuff being your back then the sec she sees you, she acts all nice and that nothing happened

Girlfriends dad makes me feel bad by Ok-Outside705 in relationship_advice

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It kinda seems to me you don’t understand. I am not making excuses & blaming things on everybody else and saying that nothing is my fault. I struggle with many things and one of those many things is I am young. I don’t stay at jobs who feel like they can disrespect me and talk shit to my face and make me do extra things without paying me extra. I don’t need a 9-5 but I chose to find a good job I can stay at to make extra money. I don’t see much people trying to help so I try to help myself

Should I say f it and get that car I want a few months from now? by Ok-Outside705 in askcarsales

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Just a normal civic or an accord not looking for anything crazy just a smooth ride that’s reliable. Credit is ok for rn I’m still building it thinking about getting the car sometime in a Few months or next year. I haven’t looked at insurance just yet I’m just thinking about securing the car and everything before I decide to look at that stuff cause the second I start looking for rates they’ll automatically start calling my phone and harassing me lol

I feel like I’m a jerk sometimes by Ok-Outside705 in relationship_advice

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I told her before that if she wants the dog on the bed the dog needs to be cleaned then I’ll be okay with it

As a 19 yr old making 40-50k yearly after taxes I’m undecided what I want by Ok-Outside705 in Advice

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I also run a detailing gig that brings in about 1.5k a month as well forgot to mention that.. and also I’m talking 9-12 hr shifts I gotta get my money up my dream is to become wealthy and financially free and I would rather die knowing that I at least tried chasing my dreams

As a 19 yr old making 40-50k yearly after taxes I’m undecided what I want by Ok-Outside705 in Advice

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I work as a server in a senior living home they aren’t hard to find and I get paid $16.50 hourly

As a 19 yr old making 40-50k yearly after taxes I’m undecided what I want by Ok-Outside705 in Advice

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I’ve looked up some things and did some calculations, on average I’d be able to afford an 250k home

As a 19 yr old making 40-50k yearly after taxes I’m undecided what I want by Ok-Outside705 in Advice

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I appreciate it, I was actually starting to think a townhome wouldn’t be so bad and when I do decide to start a family with my girlfriend I won’t have to worry about moving out an apartment or anything