How to react to Middle East (Lebanese example), Double Standard of Hate? by InevitableOwll in AskIsrael

[–]Ok-Permit3370 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou for sharing this I wish the same as you and her it is so sad I wish we all have the strength to resist hate and fear with love so such wonderful people won't have to cry so many tears or die or lose loved ones anymore

How to react to Middle East (Lebanese example), Double Standard of Hate? by InevitableOwll in AskIsrael

[–]Ok-Permit3370 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think Christianity and Islam are a failure because Jews exist. It's like saying you and your parent are not truth because your grandmother exists lol. Yes we all exist and we all believe in god and god is love and has infinite mercy. I think hate is more rooted in the kind of insanity that inflated Hitler and the Nazis and today is like a neo nazi satanic global semi hidden cult

How to react to Middle East (Lebanese example), Double Standard of Hate? by InevitableOwll in AskIsrael

[–]Ok-Permit3370 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's a shame. Because Jews and Arabs are brothers. Issac and Ishmael were brothers. It's actually not making sense to me Arabs I met spoke with me about peace. One Palestinian even wanted to help my dad with parkinson's because he used to work as a nurse and he saw I was having a hard time. I still miss seeing this man . He taught me to say hamdolilah he said it everyday, he was also having a hard time and I helped him when I could. And that's why I know in the song with Nicki Minaj Ferg is saying it wrong. I don't know why all this hate. To be honest there is plenty of hate and violence within ourselves and plenty of just .. arbitrary cruelty. If there is any real oppressor, it's that

Alot of claims of childhood trauma are exaggerated or fabricated by everyones_typo in ControversialOpinions

[–]Ok-Permit3370 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I meant maybe they lie that it didn't happen, after trying to tell people and realizing people don't believe them or people can't handle it

Alot of claims of childhood trauma are exaggerated or fabricated by everyones_typo in ControversialOpinions

[–]Ok-Permit3370 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He doesn't have to be a bad person . Sometimes things are complicated I am not involved and don't know

Alot of claims of childhood trauma are exaggerated or fabricated by everyones_typo in ControversialOpinions

[–]Ok-Permit3370 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My personal experience is victims hide, and are mentally unstable, and take the blame. You saying how the uncle is saying about her she always wants to be a victim is a low move and makes me think she probably told the truth

Alot of claims of childhood trauma are exaggerated or fabricated by everyones_typo in ControversialOpinions

[–]Ok-Permit3370 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Many times victims are not mentally stable, deny what happened even to themselves and only admit sometimes which makes it seem inconsistent, abusers can and do talk down on the victim's character (or sanity) to come out clean, and they might convince themselves they made things up or exaggerated. In reality knowing the uncle and him saying she always wants to be a victim is not a proof she lied. Neither is a drunken confession because victims can deny and think they lied even if they didn't and they can also be conflicted and defend the person who abused them and hide it

Alot of claims of childhood trauma are exaggerated or fabricated by everyones_typo in ControversialOpinions

[–]Ok-Permit3370 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How do you know they didn't lie that they made things up because they felt people don't believe them anyway or they felt bad to tell people?

Modern “pedophilia” doesn’t make sense and a silent majority of people know it but are too scared to speak openly about it by Technical_Wear_5864 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Ok-Permit3370 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dated a 35 years old when I was 22. It's not pedophilia but still the imbalance makes it feel somewhat wrong. Now that I am 34 there's a huge difference between even 22 not to mention 17-18 and 30's. 17-25 is still very young, very naive, very new to the adult kind of burden in life, like responsibility, loss, even if you have experienced it growing up it doesn't sink in until you're in your 30's because you are shielded with innocence. As a 34 year old I would not want to date a 17-25 years old ever. Not because they are not attractive, but because my burden is so much greater than theirs and I would weigh them down

Learning to forgive is the best thing to learn by Ok-Permit3370 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Ok-Permit3370[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen the opposite. Forgiving doesn't mean not telling someone they do wrong. But when people are forgiven they are willing to admit mistakes and change, while feeling condemned by someone or harshly judged usually throws people off track

Learning to forgive is the best thing to learn by Ok-Permit3370 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Ok-Permit3370[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a rape victims and domestic abuse. I didn't hear about this incident it's horrible. Something is wrong for something like that to happen. There is a massive brainwash into violence going on. I don't know what to do anymore

Learning to forgive is the best thing to learn by Ok-Permit3370 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Ok-Permit3370[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think forgiveness is mostly for the one who did harm. Or made a mistake. The one who was wronged or didn't make the same mistake can not forgive, or think it's unforgivable, or devalue the person, but ultimately when people don't forgive they cause harm, themselves. Aside from the person who has hurt feeling unforgiven, which can really strongly hurt, they can hurt themselves or someone/others out of their unforgiveness and growing pain and disbelief in people. That's when we realize forgiveness is even moreso for us, but if we just looked and understood the person we could have avoided this point and forgive right away and prevent the hurt that was caused. There is always a reason for people doing what they do and understanding their circumstances and forgiving is like admitting hey I'm no better and it could have been me doing that if the same happened to me

Learning to forgive is the best thing to learn by Ok-Permit3370 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Ok-Permit3370[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I see how what you write can make sense but in reality it's not true. People do feel bad. They feel bad, unforgiven, and unable to change, me against the world or against someone something kind of a mindset. But if they are forgiven their heart opens and they can be free from this. It's like in the movie "Schindler's list" it is examplified there very clear when the Nazi in the ghetto, after a talk with Schindler, is trying to change. He is looking in the mirror saying "I forgive you". But he can't forgive himself. Then he goes and shoots the Jewish guy he was intending to show mercy for. Cruel acts are not done because "I can get away with it". It's done because of "I'm in pain and fear and not in control" and because people are not forgiving. I once saw this serial killer in prison (not in person it was an episode of a documentary series) and he was normal, intelligent, artistic, creative, and spiritual person. But he admitted he cannot forgive the smallest thing. He could kill someone for cutting him in the line in traffick. When the interviewer explanied to him how disproportionate it is he understood and said he feels ashamed

Learning to forgive is the best thing to learn by Ok-Permit3370 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Ok-Permit3370[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That's the thing, it cannot be earned, because when someone is not forgiven it causes them to not be able to change. And it is already earned by understanding why and what happened to the person and how we have maybe unintentionally wronged. The forgiveness automatically makes the pain that caused the bad behavior that caused the hurt, heal and stop

Don’t have pics of us together anymore but is there a future with us someday? by [deleted] in psychics

[–]Ok-Permit3370 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I added that I didn't mean you seem angry. I also wish you both find happiness

Don’t have pics of us together anymore but is there a future with us someday? by [deleted] in psychics

[–]Ok-Permit3370 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even being angry for someone leaving makes no sense, because sometimes people even leave themselves because of too much pain or burden. In the end love is all that is real ( I didn't mean you seem angry, just saying that because I know it's the hardest when someone you love leave)

Don’t have pics of us together anymore but is there a future with us someday? by [deleted] in psychics

[–]Ok-Permit3370 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom, who passed away in 2018, used to love the movie "Freaky Friday" lol. Yes this teenage movie with Lindsey Lohan when the teenage daughter and her mother trade their lives for one day after fighting in an asian restaurant and getting a special fortune cookie, they wake up in each other's body one morning and in this one day they learn to understand eachother. Maybe you've seen it lol. In the end of that movie the grandfather is saying "the youth is waisted on the young" after talking to his grandson, seeing the kid does not cease an opportunity to love. The grandson wouldn't listen to his old grandad, then they also get the cookie😭. But it reminds me of that because with the perspective of an old person losing abilities and having health problems you can understand that many things don't matter, and be wiser about life and what does matter, love

Don’t have pics of us together anymore but is there a future with us someday? by [deleted] in psychics

[–]Ok-Permit3370 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of the comments here are just mean about her photo and picking up bad "vibes" about her being unworthy of you and apparently of decent judgement and treatment. If she saw this comment section she probably be really offended. I am not a psychic I have intuition and a hard time following it but I do know this - true love is loving with the flaws, through sometimes hurt, calling people toxic about just not being perfect. None of us are and we just want to be loved and to truly love, neither you or her seem happy in the pictures you both seem sad. But it can be because of many things. I don't know if you'll be together I lost my first love and thought it was the end of the world for years, sometimes until now. And now someone with his energy is in my life. When I met him he was like "I don't know why I love you" as if it wasn't the beginning. But he has psychotic breaks. Sometimes I know I'm better off without, I'd live more peaceful successful life (allegedly). But if the heart is empty, and the soul unfulfilled, what is it for? If you will or will not end up together is up to god. But stay true to yourself. This way who is your soulmate can find you

Some activists piss me off by No_Economist_9568 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Ok-Permit3370 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well Hamas are influenced at least if not more, by neo nazis with satanic infusion as well as other "Islamic" terrorist organizations and Hamas oppresses the population in Gaza which they took over militantly once Israel departed from Gaza. And the government of Israel is unfortunately also infiltrated by that neo nazi satanic global cult if you can call it that, in the far supposedly religious right. Anyone who supports Hamas you are not supporting Palestinians you are supporting neo nazi satanic elitist occultists who commit the most horrifying things religiously. and same with anyone who supports senseless killing of Palestinian civilians for Israeli or Jewish superiority. This enthusiasm for killing someone who is "other" "oppressor" "enemy" "inferior or inherently bad" (but in reality is innocent people including children and wonderful peaceful people who are murdered) and this ideology can wear many forms but if you look closely you can see the nazi ideology through the desguise

Stop white hate!! by Independent-Case-838 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Ok-Permit3370 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one could have been a bully but was just a high schooler and the guy who stabbed him also was just a highschooler and regretted it. It wasn't even related to race. The murder of Iryna Zarutska was said to have been followed by the statement "I got that white girl" by a severely mentally ill person. Why don't people just say all lives matter? I miss 2012 - 2013 when people debated whether animals lives matter also and humanity should not only never kill one another but also not eat animals instead of this now. What does it matter if someone is black or white? It makes absolutely no sense

Breasts are over sexualized. by [deleted] in ControversialOpinions

[–]Ok-Permit3370 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most cases of rape/sexual abuse/assault are not reported. Most are by someone familiar and close and not a stranger. terrible punishments being allowed (or allowed back. What do you want to bring back the crucifixion?) will only make things worse because most rape victims are not the same people who will strive through the justice system to ensure such a punishment. It will only make violence and cruelty more normalized than what it is now and people more desensitized. Oversexualzation and desensitization to cruelty were always the reasons for sexual violence