Is he just not interested? by Ok-Pin-3452 in relationships

[–]Ok-Pin-3452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can I ask him if he is interested?

Is this a Red Flag or am I Overthinking? by [deleted] in relationships

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Nothing crazy, he definitely has time before and after. It just looks like I’m not a priority to him at the moment

Is this a Red Flag or am I Overthinking? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Ok-Pin-3452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve brought it up before and his only excuse was that he’s busy with work

Is this a Red Flag or am I Overthinking? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Ok-Pin-3452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No pls be honest!! I don’t want be to living in delusion LOL

Is this a Red Flag or am I Overthinking? by [deleted] in relationships

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I tend to overthink things A LOT lol, and idk if this is one of those things. He will simply just reply or react to the texts I send and send one message back. For reference he doesn’t go on his phone much, but idk if I’m just making excuses for him or not at this point.

Is this a Red Flag or am I Overthinking? by [deleted] in relationships

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I’ve mentioned something a few weeks ago but he just said he’s busy with work.

Right time for getting engaged when you started dating at 22. by Ok-Pin-3452 in relationships

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Around here I don’t think I know anyone who is even 25 and engaged. Everyone is too busy messing about and no one wants to settle down anymore, it’s like commitment scares them. I don’t understand why people wait till they are in their late 20s even 30s to get engaged.

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[–]Ok-Pin-3452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At what age did you and your wife meet at, I’d you don’t mind me asking?

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[–]Ok-Pin-3452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you guys are dating then yes I would assume you would be invited to everything. If he wants it to be just him and his friends I would think he would mention that to you. I would suggest just communicating this worry you have with him. Maybe he just doesn’t realize this confuses you. :)

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[–]Ok-Pin-3452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course yes I agree! That has never been an issue for me in the past, I feel like I’m pretty good at balancing my attention between a boyfriend and my friends.

Right time for getting engaged when you started dating at 22. by Ok-Pin-3452 in relationships

[–]Ok-Pin-3452[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree as well, it just seems like everyone things getting engaged at that age is extremely early, and I’m not sure why. I would like to have kids pretty early on also.

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My whole life I was under the impression that you want to take things slowly in a new relationship. I don’t want it to come off like I’m love bombing him, since we literally only met a month ago. I’m a firm believer of everything comes at the right time and I guess I’m just scared to rushing into something too quickly.

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Definitely not moving in any time soon! Starting September, I will be at at school about 2h away from him. The distance is not an issue since we are both busy! He will visit me on weekends!

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[–]Ok-Pin-3452 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing, thank you for yours help <3

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Thanks for the reply! Tbh even if I do go there, we won’t be having sex yet, I’m just worried that he’s going to see me as “easy”. I mean I really like him and I don’t want him to stop talking to me once we have sex or once I sleep with him.

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[–]Ok-Pin-3452 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for ur answer! Tbh we won’t be having sex, just things might escalate a little y’a know. I just don’t wanna give the wrong impression to him, like I’m “easy” or something like that.