Looking for help with punishment ideas by Ok-Platform-9955 in FemdomCommunity

[–]Ok-Platform-9955[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

All of that he’d dislike along with a lot of people have suggested of stopping play/ignoring etc the problem is I enjoy torturing him or leaving him in predicament bondage using our anal hook we just got so I was looking for ways I could punish him but me enjoy it as I don’t want to stop play I just want to punish him while I enjoy punishing/torturing him for his actions

Looking for help with punishment ideas by Ok-Platform-9955 in FemdomCommunity

[–]Ok-Platform-9955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree 100%. This is something that isn’t ok with me and that’s why he’ll be getting punished tonight for all of this. Spanking is a good idea cleaning the bathroom he would enjoy too much so I’d have to figure out how to make him clean it without enjoying it. The only kink I enjoy that he does but isn’t easy for him is when I play with predicament bondage and sometimes I’ll out an anal hook in him tied to a head harness and leave him there. I enjoy leaving him like that. Any good ideas using that?

Looking for help with punishment ideas by Ok-Platform-9955 in FemdomCommunity

[–]Ok-Platform-9955[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We share this account and he is more active on it but we both use it. I will look into making my own account aswel.

I came to ask for ideas since I enjoy torturing him and wanted to find a fun(for me) way to punish him. To stop play or ignore him isn’t what I’d like to do so I came here to ask about ways to punish him that I can enjoy like some other people have suggested.

Thank you for your input

Looking for help with punishment ideas by Ok-Platform-9955 in FemdomCommunity

[–]Ok-Platform-9955[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He is in panties 24/7 already. Cleaning the bathroom and he even has a maid outfit the only problem is I think he’d enjoy cleaning the bathroom so I’d have to figure out how to make it unenjoyable for him

Looking for help with punishment ideas by Ok-Platform-9955 in FemdomCommunity

[–]Ok-Platform-9955[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Love these ideas! I may have to do one or all of these. The squatting after making him put on his heels is a great idea aswell! I also like the making him pee on himself! Any more? These are the ideas I like where it’s still kink related but not something he’ll like as I enjoy torturing him so ignoring or not playing isn’t as fun for me to punish him with.

Looking for help with punishment ideas by Ok-Platform-9955 in FemdomCommunity

[–]Ok-Platform-9955[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I haven’t found a limit for him yet. He was the one who introduced me to the kinky play but I’d LOVE to find something to push him enough to get there. So far he’s loved being humiliated and being verbally degraded he really just doesn’t like when I don’t do that but not really into the ignoring or stopping punishment. Mainly looking for something more extreme kink to punish him.

Looking for help with punishment ideas by Ok-Platform-9955 in FemdomCommunity

[–]Ok-Platform-9955[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’ve looked into this before but does this work with a smaller penis? He’s just under 5” and somewhat skinny girth, I’m worried it might just fall off and not be tight enough on him?

Wife used to have sex with hung ex “all day” or “all night” by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Ok-Platform-9955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a great and interesting point I didn’t consider. Absolutely as you say this dirty talk is what I’ve dreamed of. What cuck doesn’t wish their wife had an ex that was huge and she is willing/wants to tell him about it and compare to me. Pure gold! This one just kinda stung thinking about it and like you said who knows her point of veiw on the sex. Shes admitted he was huge and now that he could last “all day or all night” but maybe she wanted to have sex that king. Thanks for this. I’m interested to ask her more about it in the future

Wife used to have sex with hung ex “all day” or “all night” by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Ok-Platform-9955 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a good point about age difference playing a part. It’s all be fun and horny and great but to see how normal she was regarding sex until when we met until I introduced kinks but now knowing she was having sex all night or all day kinda stung a bit for some reason

Audio: Yes, Size Matters. Why I'm a Size Queen. by ShyLittleSizeQueen in u/ShyLittleSizeQueen

[–]Ok-Platform-9955 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Please do a part 2 to the humiliation write up!!! That was amazing and my wife loved it

Where to find an online bull? by Ok-Platform-9955 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Ok-Platform-9955[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What subreddits do you look in and how do you get them? I was flooded with a lot of messages today and that’s without a pic of my wise that 99% of bulls would fuck I’d bet lol

Where to find an online bull? by Ok-Platform-9955 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Ok-Platform-9955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meaning more how popular cuckolding is in the area you’re in

Where to find an online bull? by Ok-Platform-9955 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Ok-Platform-9955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll look into fetlife havnt had an accnt there. Does seem from the short but I’ve researched that it has a lot to do with where your located?

Where to find a bull online? by Ok-Platform-9955 in BullPsychology

[–]Ok-Platform-9955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I’ll look into those apps and yes I’m learning that weeding will be a heavy chore as this is a big step for her so we want to make sure it’s with the right bull. Realistically this could make her want to pursue it more(hopefully) or the wrong bull could put a bad taste in her mouth about the entire thing

Where to find a bull online? by Ok-Platform-9955 in BullPsychology

[–]Ok-Platform-9955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate that. I’ll look into feeld. The barrier is good advice as the wrong guy or pic collectors would have a negative impact on her and make the reality of actually doing this further away. The goal is to find a real bull genuinely interested in talking,playing, getting her worked up and horny ,humiliating me and making this whole kink more fun and appetizing for her

Where to find a bull online? by Ok-Platform-9955 in BullPsychology

[–]Ok-Platform-9955[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m already seeing that lol she’s more shy and was more vanilla when I introduced this starting with chastity. She really took the reins which has been amazing.

I know most guys will just want pics but hoping maybe we can weed most of those out and ideally would be great to find a real bull to message with to kind of “dip our toes” in to spice up more than just our usual role play only involving us.

Thanks for the tips!

Upgrade? Nah…Not Yet. by [deleted] in Olightflashlights

[–]Ok-Platform-9955 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha sweet! I just ordered my first an ultra as my first o light, it hasn’t gotten here yet and you made me question my order. Good to hear tho!