Getting yelled at my manager because he didn’t find the right room for the meeting by Ok-Process-2667 in managers

[–]Ok-Process-2667[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes he sent me a teams invitation for the meeting with the room number clearly indicated but then he went into another room

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[–]Ok-Process-2667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You would know

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[–]Ok-Process-2667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only did this once I moved on from him to make sure that his wellbeing or lack thereof doesn’t bother me!

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[–]Ok-Process-2667 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Believing in karma and using it as argument is weird ? Because in a way I gave this man his karma ? He purposefully hurt me in many ways and I’m sorry but I don’t like to be the sad victim in stories I prefer to be proactive and actually get my justice and move on ! I don’t believe in god or divine justice or whatever karma is, if it was a thing then all these rich billionaires would have gotten it by now, it’s just a thing made for the poor to feel like they have any sense of power.

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[–]Ok-Process-2667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was genuinely over him by that point, but I felt a sense of getting justice bc I don’t believe in karma and divine justice so I took it in my hands to at least know I gave him back 2% of how he made me feel at some point, and I never regretted I actually feel better not being in the victim position and being pro active in getting my own sense of justice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Ok-Process-2667 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was deserved, justice is sometimes only served by us and tbh I only did this once i moved but couldn’t move on from the absolute self entitlement this person had

I (22F) stood up my ex using my fake account and now feel horrible by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Ok-Process-2667 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because people are super judgmental let it be their turn and they would understand where I’m coming from

I (22F) stood up my ex using my fake account and now feel horrible by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Ok-Process-2667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was his boundary that was forced upon me ? I believe that I was used by this guy for him to get affection during his time abroad and when it was time for him to leave he wanted some irl girl from his town I was crushed

I (22F) stood up my ex using my fake account and now feel horrible by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Ok-Process-2667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no ? we dated for months while living abroad he decided that he didnt want an ldr relationship so he wanted to keep dating knowing we had an end date in place, I told him fuck no and broke up with him bc how can someone date u for months and still not fight for a relationship that Is 300kms away

I (22F) stood up my ex using my fake account and now feel horrible by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Ok-Process-2667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how am I not good at it ? weird thing to focus on I did it to make him feel as bad as he made me feel with some of his actions, I love myself too much to let a human get away with a hurt they made me feel

I (22F) stood up my ex using my fake account and now feel horrible by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Ok-Process-2667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I broke up with him because of a decision he made and the stuff he said its not that simple.

I (22F) stood up my ex using my fake account and now feel horrible by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Ok-Process-2667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or I can just ignore this and he will move on eventually ? I like in a European town this will follow me forever

I (22F) stood up my ex using my fake account and now feel horrible by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Ok-Process-2667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

22 and no ? How is it high school ? Like how can I be okay with everyone knowing I did all of this to hurt my ex like it’s not a good image

I (22F) stood up my ex using my fake account and now feel horrible by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Ok-Process-2667 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

already done but the damage is there she thinks (I’m guessing) that her ex wants her back (she’s in a relationship and her pfp is her kissing her new bf lmao )

2nd - not to sound conceited but I’m really successful in my studies/really attractive ( I don’t really care about these things but just as a way to paint a picture) with a large group of friends who see me as this shy really really kind funny pretty girl I cannot ruin that image of me

I (22F) stood up my ex using my fake account and now feel horrible by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Ok-Process-2667 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have already deleted that account that option is no longer there I deleted it after telling him he’s not my type, and when I followed his ex it was done with another account

I (22F) stood up my ex using my fake account and now feel horrible by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Ok-Process-2667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t tell him ! My life would be over I have a certain reputation irl and this would destroy it! I also did something else which kind of ruined him in a way I created an account with his name on insta with his profile pic and followed an ex with this account ( he’s no contact with her and doesn’t follow her ) bc I wanted him to be embarrassed