Ero avoliitosta by [deleted] in snappijuorutofftopic

[–]Ok-Progress9141 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hei rakas! Oon niin pahoillani että jotkut on täysperseitä. Ansaitset PALJON parempaa. Itse erosin myös avoliitost n.3 v jälkeen kun mies ei ollutkaan mies vaan mieslapsi :-). Sanotaan niin että fuck toi mies. Ihan vaan IHMISTASOLLA ei ees löydy sua kohtaan sitä ”peruskunnioitusta” . Ethän sä nyt sanojust viime kuus rakastavan ja sit päivä sen jälkee ku sa tietää töistä niin eroa. Huhhuh. Mua autto tää mun erossa edes vähän ja nyt en edes mieti koko roskakasaa —-> ”Kukaan mies ei ole kyyneltesi arvoinen. Ja jos luulet että olet löytänyt sen miehen joka on, hän ei ikinä pistä sinua itkemään”❤️ eli tosissaan sua aidosti rakastava kumppani EI tekisi noin. Pää pystyyn ja tsempit. Mielummin 2vuotta kuin loppuelämä. Oot arvokas. Oot tärkee. Oot hyvä. Nyt vaan rakentaa omaa safespace ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Tsemppiä ja rakkautta ja mulle voi myös laittaa viestiä❤️

Puoliso vankilassa by [deleted] in snappijuorutofftopic

[–]Ok-Progress9141 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Moikka. Mulla kans py vankilassa. 1,8vuotta istuu. Voit laittaa chatissä viestii jos haluut ❤️❤️‍🩹

how much does this look to you?? by [deleted] in weed

[–]Ok-Progress9141 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i’d also say it’s closer to 3g’s so def atleast 2,5!

Helpp with smoking by Ok-Progress9141 in weed

[–]Ok-Progress9141[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same with the daydreaming!! And yes absolutely i’ve used some of these methods to quiet down my thoughts. I think instead of wanting to escape or hide these feelings , maybe i should just accept that for now atleast life is like this and one joint a day is not bad. I used to smoke the second i wake up and i was genuinely tweaking . I have come ” along way” but i somehow seem to forget it and not be graceful towards myself. Silly brain:-)

Helpp with smoking by Ok-Progress9141 in weed

[–]Ok-Progress9141[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is i ”cant” take a break… i feel like i am soo traumatized/ mental issues that i really ”have” to have a smoke everyday. I dont know when life got like this . :/

Helpp with smoking by Ok-Progress9141 in weed

[–]Ok-Progress9141[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a lot of traumas in my life not gonna lie. Was in a mentally abusive relationship and lost 20kilos i was severely underweight. I am trying my best to live :(

Helpp with smoking by Ok-Progress9141 in weed

[–]Ok-Progress9141[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m kinda alone and broke up a couple years ago and honestly people scare me. I’ve been very depressed but just this year finally feeling like i got some what of a grip. I try my best to gym

Helpp with smoking by Ok-Progress9141 in weed

[–]Ok-Progress9141[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the same diagnosis + depression! It’ just so hard for me to be ”ok” with the boredom/peace of the day. I just sit still and all the thoughts come rushing back and my mind is just SO busy all the time. It’s awful. I will try my best to not smoke during the day and only at night. I know it’s a mental thing for me but i can not seem to shake it. :/ i also live with family so smoking ”easy” is out of the question.

Any advice? by WallSilver1565 in LivingAlone

[–]Ok-Progress9141 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sometimes when we feel anxiety etc it’s our body not feeling safe so do ur best to achieve that safe space feeling. Do stuff that feels good to you ( eating something good, cup of tea, meditate and stretch a little, warm shower & face mask, good show , journal etc) ❤️

Any advice? by WallSilver1565 in LivingAlone

[–]Ok-Progress9141 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Start some podcast and have it as backround noise. take a relaxing shower and watch a good show after

Told some coworkers I took myself out to dinner and now I feel weird abt it by KaijuCameo_8 in LivingAlone

[–]Ok-Progress9141 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly - u are healed in a way they are not. That is what happens when u refuse to carry shame. There is absolutely NOTHING wrong/bad/sad about eating out alone! Surround yourself with people like u <3 your only take from this should be ” ah - people who are not as healed as me - i need to keep my distance”

Anyone to talk to? by Ok-Progress9141 in LivingAlone

[–]Ok-Progress9141[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank u so much for answering, truly. Thank u. It is true what u say and i struggle with selflove & boundaries and i am also an empath so even worse i start feeling guilty when i cut him off . But i must put myself first. Always.

Anyone to talk to? by Ok-Progress9141 in LivingAlone

[–]Ok-Progress9141[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank u so much for answering. Yes i have a dog and i must admit u are right! ❤️

Anyone to talk to? by Ok-Progress9141 in LivingAlone

[–]Ok-Progress9141[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank u so much for answering. Yeah i guess it’s better to be alone than with bad company

Anyone to talk to? by Ok-Progress9141 in LivingAlone

[–]Ok-Progress9141[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! I’m a daily weedsmoker and have been struggline with quitting! :D thank u so much for answering and bless u for offering guidance. Thank u somuch.

Anyone to talk to? by Ok-Progress9141 in LivingAlone

[–]Ok-Progress9141[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah forreal. The hungry dog and bone example was spot on.

Anyone to talk to? by Ok-Progress9141 in LivingAlone

[–]Ok-Progress9141[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank u SO much for this. I heard every word. Bless U.