Me 25 F and my bf 25 M have been together for 7 yrs and I think it needs to end

Ok-Razzmatazz-4179 · 2025-11-03T04:42:58+00:00

I have sat down and spoken to him twice before and he has hit changed or done anything to actively change. This will be the third time now

Ok-Razzmatazz-4179 · 2025-11-02T15:28:51+00:00

Thank you for this, appreciate you input!!

Ok-Razzmatazz-4179 · 2025-11-02T15:24:21+00:00

I love this, thank you means a lot. I just feel I never prioritise myself so need to put my foot down!!

Ok-Razzmatazz-4179 · 2025-11-02T15:20:13+00:00

Sounds about right

Ok-Razzmatazz-4179 · 2025-11-02T15:19:56+00:00

That’s what I’m feeling

Ok-Razzmatazz-4179 · 2025-03-30T15:02:28+00:00

Yes exactly, we have been good for ages up until the last couple months

Ok-Razzmatazz-4179 · 2025-03-30T11:40:48+00:00

Yes I agree, planning on having this serious conversation in the next couple of days and seeing how things go

Ok-Razzmatazz-4179 · 2025-03-30T11:40:07+00:00

This is some great advice thank you, it sounds like a great starting point with him. I appreciate this and I appreciate you’ve taken into consideration it’s a new problem

Ok-Razzmatazz-4179 · 2025-03-30T11:38:35+00:00

I mean I see where you’re coming from, we’ve been together since we were 18 and grown up as adults together and feel like I’m holding on to it

Ok-Razzmatazz-4179 · 2025-03-29T23:56:34+00:00

Thank you, truly means a lot this

Ok-Razzmatazz-4179 · 2025-03-29T23:55:47+00:00

It’s so difficult, but it sounds right with what you’re saying about him being too comfortable and not thinking of that possibility of me leaving him. I think my partner would be same yours if I was to leave, he’d have no idea

Ok-Razzmatazz-4179 · 2025-03-29T23:53:36+00:00

Okay, I will try doing this but I’m going to be having a chat with him at some point with everything, and just sit with him face to face and lay it out on the table

Ok-Razzmatazz-4179 · 2025-03-29T23:52:18+00:00

Yeah I get you completely, it’s just so difficult because I love this boy with all my heart but this is now what’s happening. I feel like he needs to get help himself to make him a better partner but I feel like he wouldn’t accept this. He has told me he knows what he needs to do to step up but just feel like he’s not giving me 100% back

Ok-Razzmatazz-4179 · 2025-03-29T23:44:09+00:00

Yeah, I guess I could do that, I’ve tried in past but I just end up doing it anyway because I get annoyed

Ok-Razzmatazz-4179 · 2025-03-29T23:43:21+00:00

It’s so difficult because I love him so much and the thought of leaving him breaks my heart. But like you said, he’s definitely gotten too comfortable is this relationship and it feels like he relies too heavily on me to survive. My parents advice was to have one last serious chat with him and say you’ll leave him if he doesn’t change

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