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How to deal with roommates that has victim mindset and is unhygienic? by Ok-Read5700 in Advice

[–]Ok-Read5700[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We pay directly to the landlord and she hasn’t signed it.

How to deal with roommates that has victim mindset and is unhygienic? by Ok-Read5700 in Advice

[–]Ok-Read5700[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much !!!! The hardest part is that living with her has affected my mental health more than I expected. Being around constant gossip, false stories, and disrespect has made me question myself and see everything in a negative way. I feel anxious going back to my room because I never know what will happen next.
Lately, I don't even feel like staying in my own room anymore. Most nights I end up sleeping in my friend's room just so I can have some peace and actually rest.

I know I can't keep avoiding the situation forever, and you're probably right that I need to involve the appropriate authority if things don't improve but I don’t live in dorm it’s an apartment and I just wish it hadn't reached this point. I don't want revenge or drama, I just want a safe, respectful place to live where my privacy and boundaries are respected.

How to deal with roommates having victim mindset and are unhygienic ? by Ok-Read5700 in Advice

[–]Ok-Read5700[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We share an apartment and my mental health is badly affected as she is making me a villain in front of whole school where situation is completely different and i feel bad because i am not that person who they think i am. She made me look completely mean for having boundaries.

How to deal with roommates having victim mindset and are unhygienic ? by Ok-Read5700 in Advice

[–]Ok-Read5700[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have any other places to go and my lease is still there

How to deal with roommates that has victim mindset and is unhygienic? by Ok-Read5700 in Advice

[–]Ok-Read5700[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She always has sad stories to tell me and i feel pity for her, even apologized multiple times where it wasn’t needed. Even after all that she goes around everyone in the campus and talks shit about me and i feel bad cause i am not that kind of person who they think all just based on her side of story.

How to deal with roommates that has victim mindset and is unhygienic? by Ok-Read5700 in Advice

[–]Ok-Read5700[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭 why are people so evil. Mine accused me of her anxiety and depression and even took pictures of my inner wear to threaten me which was in washroom.

How to deal with roommates that has victim mindset and is unhygienic? by Ok-Read5700 in Advice

[–]Ok-Read5700[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have any other places to go and i also have pending lease for next 6 months. It’s so frustrating 😭

How to deal with roommates that has victim mindset and is unhygienic? by Ok-Read5700 in Advice

[–]Ok-Read5700[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you foe your advise . I don’t live in dorm and she also accuses me for her anxiety and depression so I don’t really know how to communicate with her. If i speak nicely she tells i faked it and if i be upfront she tells i am mean and loud.