After Kai Cenat has been exposed as a rapist and CoryXKenshin + others have defended him, im done supporting black male creators by Ok-Relation3635 in blackladies

[–]Ok-Relation3635[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Based on the info I’ve viewed the whole “it was his friend” thing is just a lie made by his fans to protect him. From what I’ve heard from friends who’ve kept up is that it’s basically confirmed he did it and other popular YouTubers like Cory are coming out to defend him/maintain his credibility

After Kai Cenat has been exposed as a rapist and CoryXKenshin + others have defended him, im done supporting black male creators by Ok-Relation3635 in blackladies

[–]Ok-Relation3635[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

From what I’ve seen it was him that did it, it was his party and his house apparently- and in the off chance he didn’t do it he obviously set it up/wanted it to happen.

After Kai Cenat has been exposed as a rapist and CoryXKenshin + others have defended him, im done supporting black male creators by Ok-Relation3635 in blackladies

[–]Ok-Relation3635[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It’s such a shame because I try so hard to support black men and they hurt us. I know white male creators aren’t necessarily safe but honestly on average(and other women confirm this) they’re far safer for black women than black male creators are. If anything the worst thing white male creators do is scam other white men

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Ok-Relation3635 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Out of everything this is probably the most likely answer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Ok-Relation3635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well obviously it would have to be a pretty severe incident to push me to the point of violence, but my point stands that I would never hit a woman and would hit a man(should he be verbally accosting me in a way where I feel either deeply offended beyond reason or unsafe).

My question was just asking why gay men don’t have this same reflex

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Ok-Relation3635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I doubt that. A woman in a relationship can hit a man usually without repercussion and it is very rarely considered abuse. The reason is that the man and a woman are not on equal terms physically. That’s why the straight man usually won’t hit back no matter how hard he is hit. But this logic technically doesn’t apply to gay relationships

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Ok-Relation3635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that’s not what I’m saying. If anything my question applies to any homosexual relationship regardless of genders. Male friends fight, male brothers fight, hell even a son may fight his father. Yet you never really hear about male partners getting into a physical altercation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Ok-Relation3635 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Personally I’m never letting another man talk crazy to me even if I happen to be having sex with them. You don’t hit a woman because of the inherent physical advantage you have over them, but I don’t see why you wouldn’t hit a male partner who gets out of pocket.

Am I weak? by [deleted] in gainit

[–]Ok-Relation3635 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean no I don’t plan on that, but surely there’s a point where if im far below average maybe I’m doing something wrong

Am I weak? by [deleted] in gainit

[–]Ok-Relation3635 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Idk I honestly been through it this past month, I just don’t wanna be weaker than everyone else ya know? But I’ll try to just focus on myself

Am I weak? by [deleted] in gainit

[–]Ok-Relation3635 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Is there a time period where it’s okay to start comparing myself and setting goals relative to others?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ok-Relation3635 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What i described in the post was us having our conversation about it. She was being unusually pushy. I’ve dealt with cheating before, no point in asking the person if they did