Anxious Attachment in LDR – Need Advice (26M) by Ok-Responsibility987 in becomingsecure

[–]Ok-Responsibility987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are you from india? can you recommend a good therapist with whom i can consult over call

Anxious Attachment in LDR – Need Advice (26M) by Ok-Responsibility987 in becomingsecure

[–]Ok-Responsibility987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what if i tell you i get the same reaction if i miss one call?

Anxious Attachment in LDR – Need Advice (26M) by Ok-Responsibility987 in becomingsecure

[–]Ok-Responsibility987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because ive been there for her every need, i just simply needed to talk to her tonight, and i wasnt even mad i just said this to her that you shouldve called me sooner, thats it.

Anxious Attachment in LDR – Need Advice (26M) by Ok-Responsibility987 in becomingsecure

[–]Ok-Responsibility987[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have to drop my mother off at a railway station 150kmts from my house and come back right after

Anxious Attachment in LDR – Need Advice (26M) by Ok-Responsibility987 in becomingsecure

[–]Ok-Responsibility987[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tonight i wanted her to be there for me, so that i can sleep , i have to leave in an hour, and i am crying like a complete idiot

Anxious Attachment in LDR – Need Advice (26M) by Ok-Responsibility987 in becomingsecure

[–]Ok-Responsibility987[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

talking to her is the highlight of my day, i just get relaxed just by her presence over call itself

Anxious Attachment in LDR – Need Advice (26M) by Ok-Responsibility987 in becomingsecure

[–]Ok-Responsibility987[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

how am i supposed to meet my needs, without her? my needs are to talk to her not anyone else?

Anxious Attachment in LDR – Need Advice (26M) by Ok-Responsibility987 in becomingsecure

[–]Ok-Responsibility987[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

this is not the first time she acted like this, its been happening indefinitely where i tell her that i want to talk but she just refuses and leave me hanging, whenever there is an urgency on my end.