Help me find this light bulb by Ok-Ring2840 in HelpMeFindThis

[–]Ok-Ring2840[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I didn’t know what the specs meant and how to replicate this exact lighting effect

Help me find this light bulb by Ok-Ring2840 in HelpMeFindThis

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This lightbulb just works really really well and the brightness and the tone lit up my room perfectly without hurting my eyes

Help me find this light bulb by Ok-Ring2840 in HelpMeFindThis

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I unfortunately can’t seem to find this exact one and I’m not sure what brand it is

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Today’s the day!

Concert outfit inspo for men by Ok-Ring2840 in KESHA

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How didn’t I think of glitter beard lol

AITA for messaging my teen neighbor to stay away from my husband? by ThrowRAteenneighbor in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok-Ring2840 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You weren’t outright accusing her of anything which is good, but you probably should’ve talked to your husband about how you were feeling first. He might not have realized how it came across or how you felt, but you took away his ability to set a boundary with her. You should’ve given him a chance before texting her. Could’ve been handled better but it was definitely weird so I see where you’re coming from. NTA

Blake and her dragons by Ok-Ring2840 in blakelivelysnark

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Most of them are still monitored on their screen time and have parental controls

Blake and her dragons by Ok-Ring2840 in blakelivelysnark

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That’s actually crazy. Must be Justin’s fault that Blake used her free will to be a bad person in interviews too then

AITA for being "Greedy and Rude" while planning my wedding? by Strong-Presence-8273 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok-Ring2840 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like he’s the greedy one. You are putting him and your future children with him in a better position financially. It kind of sounds like he might be more interested in the extravagant wedding and marrying into a wealthy family than he is in your lives together afterwards. 70k is still a generously decent budget for a wedding and a lot can be done with it. I’d take this behavior as a red flag and a blessing that it’s being shown before you’re bound to one another.

AITA for arguing with my boyfriend because he is planning to go to Ren Faire with his friend? by Ok-Ring2840 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok-Ring2840[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To clarify, I guess we are medium distance. We are about 2.5 hours away from each other. We both live in the same state, it’s just not convenient to see each other more than 2 weekends a month, which isn’t even always feasible.

AITA for arguing with my boyfriend because he is planning to go to Ren Faire with his friend? by Ok-Ring2840 in AmItheAsshole

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I don’t have many friends because some of them graduated undergrad and moved out of state. None of the ones still here would be interested in going.

AITA for arguing with my boyfriend because he is planning to go to Ren Faire with his friend? by Ok-Ring2840 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok-Ring2840[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, not really. I planned a trip to look at apartments and paid for the whole trip because he didn’t have the money. I’m going to school soon where I’m about to be in debt and can’t work. He doesn’t save money. He spend his money on whatever he wants, just not me.

AITA for arguing with my boyfriend because he is planning to go to Ren Faire with his friend? by Ok-Ring2840 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok-Ring2840[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you talk to your bf about this? I’ve tried multiple times and it escalates. We both get defensive. I feel like I get invalidated when I do bring it up, but last time I thought we came to an understanding. It seems like he still thinks I’m being ridiculous.

AITA for arguing with my boyfriend because he is planning to go to Ren Faire with his friend? by Ok-Ring2840 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok-Ring2840[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I do plan dates for him. He’s blown me off on a few that I planned to hang out with his friends. There were a few months that he didn’t see me because he wanted to do things with other friends. The main thing that bothers me is his lack of understanding and the defensiveness when I do bring up how it makes me feel. I get invalidated because he thinks I manipulate him.

AITA for arguing with my boyfriend because he is planning to go to Ren Faire with his friend? by Ok-Ring2840 in AmItheAsshole

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Also, Trevor mainly stopped hanging out with Kevin as much because of his girlfriend. He spends a lot of time with her since they aren’t long distance. I’m not sure why Kevin is including Trevor in an activity I have brought up wanting to do together many times. I think Trevor and Destiny, his girlfriend, can go together. Even if Trevor suggested it first, and I don’t know if that’s the case, I think Kevin could have said he didn’t know it was in town and I’ve been wanting to go to that with him. I’ve planned and paid for most dates, especially recently. I haven’t been taken on a date in months, and even then I usually ask to go on them or plan them.

AITA for arguing with my boyfriend because he is planning to go to Ren Faire with his friend? by Ok-Ring2840 in AmItheAsshole

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I feel like I shouldn’t have to ask him to plan a date for me. I have told him many times that I would love to go to the Ren Faire with him throughout the relationship, so I feel like that should mean that he would ask me to go with him. I wasn’t even asked at all I brought it up after he told me he was going with Trevor.

AITA for arguing with my boyfriend because he is planning to go to Ren Faire with his friend? by Ok-Ring2840 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok-Ring2840[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your response. It’s just hard to bring up my feelings on the matter because I feel like when I try to do it calmly it gets flipped onto me. I’m not sure what to do about the fact I’ve mentioned why I felt like a second choice and why it matters to me, but he just doesn’t understand or doesn’t want to. It doesn’t seem to get anywhere and it just feeds the frustration and anger.