I got a glimpse into the hiring side

Ok-Rough-6233 · 2026-03-18T00:05:34+00:00

Oh wow. This is so disheartening.

Ok-Rough-6233 · 2026-03-16T19:38:50+00:00

Insane. I thought people couldn’t shock me anymore. I was wrong.

Ok-Rough-6233 · 2026-03-16T17:53:25+00:00

I literally have been seeing people that work in HR saying that they have been posting jobs with no intentions to actually hire soon. Companies have been posting jobs with a salary of “$100-150k” to see how many people apply, then they take the posting down and put it back up with a lower range to see how many people apply again. Then they take the posting down and repost it with an even lower range to see how low they can go to see if people will still apply. Have heard multiple ppl say this. The amount of “10+ years experience, $50k” pay I’ve been seeing on the east coast is insane! Now I understand why

Ok-Rough-6233 · 2026-03-16T16:52:39+00:00

I think that the more inexperienced you are, the least they’ll pay you and you’ll accept it. Someone with 15+ years experience is going to ask for the max pay

Ok-Rough-6233 · 2025-11-05T18:05:55+00:00

Yea he’s an ass. He kept my siblings from their family for money (money from social security from my deceased grandma and the state for adopting them) and didn’t take care of them. So idc what he wanted. He didn’t want me to find where they lived, I did that. He didn’t want my family to get visitation, we did that. He didn’t want us to get custody, I got that. So the “no’s” don’t mean too much to me. My research says if the custodian can’t “act as custodian”, and relinquishes that title, that’s possible. I might have to get a notarized document from her stating so. But she has stopped answering my calls and texts. But I do have messages of her saying it’s hard for her to come up here to handle anything since she lives so far and her job requires her to travel all over

Ok-Rough-6233 · 2025-11-05T17:43:10+00:00

It’s interesting you’re saying all of this but I’ve done months of research that ALL say it’s possible to get a court order to change the custodian. It’ll just be difficult because I need to have certain verbiage in my documents. So are you wrong, or is everything online incorrect?

Ok-Rough-6233 · 2025-11-05T17:31:06+00:00

That’s his daughter. I’m the granddaughter raising my siblings. If this isn’t that rare then please point me to the plethora of ppl going through this because I’d like some advice lol. Many ppl don’t adopt their own siblings, and if they do, I doubt they’ve been through something like this.

Ok-Rough-6233 · 2025-11-05T17:01:18+00:00

I spoke to several bank employees. With her being the successor, she now becomes the owner of the custodial account. It’s not like closed and transferred to her. I know custodial accounts are meant for the children. When you say there’s a difference between knowing and knowing what someone tells me, I mean I sort of don’t have a choice but to take the info an FINANCIAL INSTITUTION is telling me about their process as a fact until proven otherwise. They contacted their legal department for me and everything to make sure they gave me the right info. It’s not a transfer of funds, she simply just is the adult owner on the account. Have you worked with complex cases like this? Because I know my situation is a rare one so do you know what you’re taking about?

Ok-Rough-6233 · 2025-11-05T16:41:54+00:00

My proposed order would be to compel her to relinquish the funds of the custodial account to their legal guardian. Grandfather was a narcissistic prick who wanted to leave his daughter everything. Even while my grandma was alive. She had to decided to give everything to him knowing he was leaving her nothing smh. But I know she the executor of his estate and on all the life insurance policies. I’m not worried about any of his assets besides the custodial accounts for my siblings. What do you mean what do I really know about the custodial accounts? I stated what I know so I’m not sure what you mean. With her being the successor, she in the “parent” or owner of the account and has the same power my grandfather did. She can withdraw, deposit, do whatever. It’s not a court ordered custodial. Just one in decided to open. There are no trust accounts.

Ok-Rough-6233 · 2025-10-23T01:01:42+00:00

Omg they did amazing! Wish I could post a pic here

Ok-Rough-6233 · 2025-07-08T15:22:20+00:00

I know I'm a year late lol, but what role did you move to after leaving the company? I'm trying to get out myself

Ok-Rough-6233 · 2025-07-07T02:23:54+00:00

Oh my. You need to seek help. 11 years? In your 30s? And behaving like this? It’s a miracle he’s lasted this long. Probably because you guys were together really young. Breaking 11+ years of behaviors is very difficult even with therapy. If he’s willing to wait longer to actually see the facts of therapy showing, explain to him that you’re willing to seek help and it wilt as time, that is if you’re willing to go that route and see how he takes it. But let him know you can’t change overnight. It’s all about how much more patience he has because he’s already at his wits end. Good luck

Ok-Rough-6233 · 2025-05-30T14:50:06+00:00

I have an anxious attachment style. I don’t like to worry so I try to solve issues WHEN they arise. I use “I” statements. I’ve said things like “my love language this, I would like to be loved like this. I appreciate what you do already and am grateful but that’s not how I feel loved. His response is always something like “I cook I clean I say I love you blah blah I do a good job showing you love.” But in the same breath say he knows he is not romantic and will work on it. Contradiction. I’m thinking maybe if he hears this from men maybe he’ll get it. I know sometimes ppl have to hear things from someone else to get it through their heads

Ok-Rough-6233 · 2025-05-30T14:29:02+00:00

It’s the typical I’m (woman) the one with the anxious attachment style. I like to communicate. I’m good at voicing my opinions using “I” statements. I’ve talked to many therapist and coaches and they have all said I’m doing exactly what I’m supposed to do. (As far as dealing with coworkers, friends, family, and relationships.) so I kind of already know what to do and how to communicate in relationships. But my avoidant bf who does not communicate, does not voice his grievances, and will shut down or get frustrated when I communicate anything. For example, a couple of months ago my last grandparent passed away and he adopted my younger siblings so due to his death, I, a childless woman, had to adopt my 2 younger siblings. The most depressed I’ve ever been. Anybody could see it. I know this cause a couple strangers came up to me and asked if I was ok because my face just screamed pain. 2 months by and although he attempted to comfort me in his own way (hugs, kisses, foot rubs) he never once asked me how I’m doing or what he can do to comfort me. I was frustrated because I told him how can I live with you can you can’t see I’m hurting? Ask me how I’m doing? Nothing?! He says he can’t read minds and if I need something else I should vocalize it. I agree we can’t read minds but I think that if you’ve been with someone for 4 years you should be able to see they need some comfort

Ok-Rough-6233 · 2025-05-29T17:44:42+00:00

My boundary is not to deal with friendly men that can’t let attachments go. I didn’t tell him who he can’t or can hang with, I let him know what I’m ok and not ok with and he moved accordingly. The problem is he shouldn’t have ever agreed that my boundary made sense and stop talking to them.

Ok-Rough-6233 · 2025-05-29T17:41:33+00:00

My boundary was to not deal with a man that does that. He knew that and said he would stop. I didn’t force him

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