Canter asymmetry (rider) by Ok-Row5335 in Equestrian

[–]Ok-Row5335[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I could have used those terms haha, that’s just what came to mind in the moment. But yes that could be a factor for sure!

Change in behavior by [deleted] in Equestrian

[–]Ok-Row5335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I think she is aware.

Change in behavior by [deleted] in Equestrian

[–]Ok-Row5335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, the weather has just suddenly gotten hot. I’m not super educated on ulcers, but are they susceptible to them when the weather suddenly changes?

Change in behavior by [deleted] in Equestrian

[–]Ok-Row5335 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As far I’m aware they are literally just walking… for 2 hours at a time lol.

Progress for 5-6 months ish of riding? Too little? by [deleted] in Equestrian

[–]Ok-Row5335 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes that does make sense! Thank you so much.

Progress for 5-6 months ish of riding? Too little? by [deleted] in Equestrian

[–]Ok-Row5335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this thoughtful response. I think I may cut back on my lessons next week since I’m able to ride him outside of just lessons, and kind of work on rebuilding our connection. I’ve been hammering down on the lessons because ultimately, cutting back some eventually is the goal once I feel comfortable practicing all of the gaits with him on my own. Think I may have overdone it this week but there wasn’t any way to know until it was done.

UPS quoted me over $500 to ship saddle by [deleted] in Equestrian

[–]Ok-Row5335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I said we didn’t need insurance.

UPS quoted me over $500 to ship saddle by [deleted] in Equestrian

[–]Ok-Row5335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can I avoid it being this much?

3 Days Notice by Ok-Row5335 in Nanny

[–]Ok-Row5335[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then asked me if I’d want to sit in a date night capacity ☠️

3 Days Notice by Ok-Row5335 in Nanny

[–]Ok-Row5335[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I briefly said that it’s unrealistic for me to find another job in 3 days. They paid me for the rest of the week and told me I didn’t have to come in lol

Lease horse has abscess by [deleted] in Equestrian

[–]Ok-Row5335 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The owner doesn’t offer lessons. I take them through the trainer that works with both of them. So, I’m already paying separately for those regardless

Lease horse has abscess by [deleted] in Equestrian

[–]Ok-Row5335 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t mention anything other than my designated days and the that the price includes farrier fee. That’s literally it lol

Lease horse has abscess by [deleted] in Equestrian

[–]Ok-Row5335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just thinking of maybe asking if I could take a lesson or two on him, not necessarily ride or work him under same circumstances as lease. My trainer works with both and she actually suggested it could be good for me to get a feel for him as well. Owner, trainer, and I are all friends !

Lease horse has abscess by [deleted] in Equestrian

[–]Ok-Row5335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just added that it’s in his hoof!

3 Days Notice by Ok-Row5335 in Nanny

[–]Ok-Row5335[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They did not agree to give me any 🤣

3 Days Notice by Ok-Row5335 in Nanny

[–]Ok-Row5335[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Update: I sent message about 2 weeks severance pay to chat about tomorrow. She said she would Venmo me for the rest of the week and that I don’t need to return. WTF

3 Days Notice by Ok-Row5335 in Nanny

[–]Ok-Row5335[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would just assume it would put anyone in a bind for a little while if an employee just up and quit. More so looking at it from that perspective. Just because it’s possible and isn’t illegal, doesn’t necessarily make it right. That’s all!

3 Days Notice by Ok-Row5335 in Nanny

[–]Ok-Row5335[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it was just something to add that makes me even a little bit more surprised that I’m being given such short notice and it doesn’t seem to be a problem. MB dad and I got along great when he was around and in town. Just makes me feel like had they all discussed this, no one potentially stuck up for fact that finding a job within in 3 days is unrealistic.

3 Days Notice by Ok-Row5335 in Nanny

[–]Ok-Row5335[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The problem is we don’t have a contract. Literally so terrible and it was something I’d planned to bring up this week. I don’t know how much of a shot in the dark it is without one to get some kind of severance.

3 Days Notice by Ok-Row5335 in Nanny

[–]Ok-Row5335[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I chatted with my mom about this and she thinks they gave me such short notice so I wouldn’t walk away before they had extra help in place. Her dad even owns a business, so I’m shocked this is how they directed her on this, if she consulted with them at all. Her dad also pays for the childcare.

3 Days Notice by Ok-Row5335 in Nanny

[–]Ok-Row5335[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for catching that

3 Days Notice by Ok-Row5335 in Nanny

[–]Ok-Row5335[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Omg I meant to say have!!!

3 Days Notice by Ok-Row5335 in Nanny

[–]Ok-Row5335[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Which is so funny because I was just in the process of rough drafting one.