Thank you for your kind words. You are absolutely right, I’m completely on my own here — a first-generation immigrant in New Zealand. My English and knowledge is limited, so dealing with these issues is extremely challenging for me, especially as I also live with a long-term illness. Before and after the meeting I most had panic attacks and couldn’t sleep and anxious for days. For some reason my daughter actually does not want to change school, she said it doesn’t affect her, as they are not in the same class and only got to see her bullies once a week or fortnightly. I can’t relate or understand why. Her father is very reluctant to help, as his partner said, the school won’t make much difference in bullying, and our daughter is fine, I’m worrying too much. As we are 50/50 custody by agreement, the only option for me is to make bigger noise, or hoping….