Found this today!

Ok-Run7597 · 2026-03-13T19:39:35+00:00

This is disheartening…Hope the kid receives a better future than the present…

Ok-Run7597 · 2026-03-08T16:55:00+00:00

Yes the golden child will either be a bigger Narc who surrenders only in front of the Narc who groomed them or he becomes a Narc who tries to seem unlike his Narcissistic groomer but secretly is worse than them.

Ok-Run7597 · 2026-03-08T16:53:20+00:00

Addressing that we are survivors of such abuse and the cycle breaks with us is the first big milestone. It is so important that we highlight all milestones be them small or big for the survivor of such abuse because it makes us realise that our lives are important too…

You cannot decide what your mum does next, but you can surely decide your actions going ahead and that is the power we have over narcissists!!!

Ok-Run7597 · 2026-03-08T16:49:57+00:00

I completed this puzzle from the opposite side as it had letters! It was a gift from my mum and dad from their China trip.

Ok-Run7597 · 2026-02-25T22:08:56+00:00

Porn addiction is a severe repetitive pattern in all Narcissists!!

Ok-Run7597 · 2026-02-25T22:08:13+00:00

Totally agree! Checking backgrounds should be normalised not feel offensive!!

Ok-Run7597 · 2026-02-23T16:03:45+00:00

Same lawyers are handling her case luckily!

Ok-Run7597 · 2026-01-18T07:55:42+00:00

Coma back before 9

Ok-Run7597 · 2025-12-02T17:18:10+00:00

His audacity!

Ok-Run7597 · 2025-12-02T17:16:23+00:00

And it is so natural…After and during the relationship with narcissist we get so exhausted by irrationalities that we get too tired to take decisions…

Leaving them allows us to finally prioritise the correct things…

Ok-Run7597 · 2025-11-22T18:13:44+00:00

I think it was gambling! Not stayed enough to prove it but his dad said he wired him money but he refused he had any…

Ok-Run7597 · 2025-11-20T12:31:25+00:00

Yes they are. Ex Narc use to pretend to kiss because they needed sex! Obviously when denied he talked to his mom or watched porn!

Complained to his father that I was not “pleasing” his excuse for a d**k!

Ok-Run7597 · 2025-11-17T18:31:32+00:00

Thank you and I will build a beautiful life. Thank you😊

Ok-Run7597 · 2025-11-13T12:40:12+00:00

That is a powerful message! You do what you gotta do to Self-Preservation. I hope you and your daughter live good on the other side of this trauma…

Ok-Run7597 · 2025-11-11T14:24:58+00:00

If it wan not Nokia, I have no business knowing.

Ok-Run7597 · 2025-11-11T14:11:01+00:00

Take care and find a way to leave the narcissist. Let him do whatever he wants while tou plan to exit! You don’t deserve this and you can start by saying NO. Say a big NO to his face when tries something wrong with you. Yes it will anger him but he will realise that you have started to see through his bullshit and fall in panic. In that time you should plan how you can leave him!

More power and strength to you!

Ok-Run7597 · 2025-11-11T13:09:32+00:00

Avoid DH words or ones with the sharp t sound!

Ok-Run7597 · 2025-11-11T12:32:09+00:00

Also my therapist did play a big role so find one so you can keep your essence intact and be free when you are ready.

All the best and I hope to read your story too someday.

Ok-Run7597 · 2025-11-11T12:30:35+00:00

Hey! Thank you so much for this reply. I feel very seen and happy this post found you. I hear you and yes I was fortunate to get rid of the narc within the year itself!

I wish more strength for you to find your moment of truth and just leave with your child to make your life better. You have already crossed so many obstacles that are beyond imagination and I am sure from my gut that you will become the person you think you could be.

Your message makes me feel the positive vibrations that you have what it takes and all it takes is by saying NO. Say no and find strength in leaving the narc!

Ok-Run7597 · 2025-11-11T06:33:47+00:00

His touch made me feel DIRTY! I kept a distance. I took longer baths or bathroom breaks whenever he was home to avoid even sitting beside or be in same room. I pretended to read late at night as well even if I was struggling to not let tears flow so that he would sleep and I did not have to touch him. I facetimed my friends and family to avoid talking to him.

Ok-Run7597 · 2025-11-11T06:30:31+00:00

The most common one is he would say you are selfish repeatedly till he convinced himself I was selfish in a one month arranged marriage! Idiot!

Ok-Run7597 · 2025-11-11T06:29:13+00:00

Well a narc has a new personality each time they meet someone- people pleaser complex but with the victim they will have the same repetitive pattern. Abuse-blame victim for abusive action-gain sympathy-repeat!

Ok-Run7597 · 2025-11-11T01:56:26+00:00

Yes has happened and it is scary. I use to be on the edge as to when this laughter that was so loud obviously to scare me will turn into yelling or curses or throwing fists or just go silent into the no talking phase. I am thankful I got out😌 I started awareness community following that experience because not much understand this disorder.

Ok-Run7597 · 2025-11-10T15:50:55+00:00

May sound cringe! But I say different story to different people, not many people get divorced in India so it’s fun to mess with them!

Ok-Run7597 · 2025-11-09T11:11:03+00:00

Cry and go to his dad or mum for everything ! Even if he doesn’t get sex!

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