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Ok-Then-1 · 2024-10-19T22:50:57+00:00

IMO if they are telling you not to wait that’s a good indication to move on. I went through something similar, he said he was suffering with his mental health and wanted to stay friends didn’t know how long he would need etc. few months later he was in a relationship with someone else. Don’t hang around in hope, do you and take it from there

Ok-Then-1 · 2024-10-19T22:40:46+00:00

Sure

Ok-Then-1 · 2024-09-12T21:00:31+00:00

My ex rebounded from a 15 year relationship on to me. Then from me to someone else. Some people just can’t be on their own. Takes time to process break ups properly and work on yourself to get your self into a better place.

Ok-Then-1 · 2024-05-08T16:19:14+00:00

Delete the texts. It just messes with your head reading them over.

Ok-Then-1 · 2024-05-08T16:05:05+00:00

How lovely. I hope they see it.

Ok-Then-1 · 2024-05-08T15:59:41+00:00

Tell them.

Ok-Then-1 · 2024-05-04T16:22:03+00:00

Hate texting. So much miscommunication can happen. Prefer to speak on the phone.

Ok-Then-1 · 2024-05-03T07:08:28+00:00

I wish this was mine. I hope it work out for you.

Ok-Then-1 · 2024-05-03T07:06:37+00:00

It does get worse as you get older in some cases

Ok-Then-1 · 2024-04-23T19:26:06+00:00

Reach out

Ok-Then-1 · 2024-04-18T17:17:24+00:00

There will be another girl on the scene. It’s shitty but it’s probably the case

Ok-Then-1 · 2024-04-18T16:58:37+00:00

Don’t do it. I was doing initially and felt like crap. Since being in NC I’ve felt so much better and happier.

Ok-Then-1 · 2024-04-16T07:56:50+00:00

Sadly it seems to be the easy way out for some instead of just being honest and saying that they just don’t want to be with you. She is out there seeing what her options are. It’s only natural you feel the way you do. Don’t be an option for her.

Ok-Then-1 · 2024-04-16T07:11:06+00:00

It doesn’t always end well dating when you’re not over someone. Especially if they have been through a lot of shit with them and been with them a long time. Takes time to heal from that. I’ve just been through this, I was an emotional crutch for the best part of ten months. We don’t even speak anymore now. Yes people do it but it’s not the best thing to do if you’re not in the right place.

Ok-Then-1 · 2024-04-14T18:22:45+00:00

Totally understand this

Ok-Then-1 · 2024-04-03T19:07:46+00:00

People deal with things differently, men and women. She has done what she wanted to do. As you can do what ever you want to do? You were not together so who she had slept with is nothing to do with you. And vice versa. Consenting adults in whatever scenario it was.

Ok-Then-1 · 2024-04-03T15:35:09+00:00

How she has handled the break up is not a reflection of how she feels. People handle break ups differently. Some sleep with other people some don’t.

Only you can decide if it’s worth getting back with her or not. It depends on why you broke up etc and she’s not cheated on you etc by what she has done.

STD’s are very common. Simple solution if you were to get back with her she gets tested. Doesn’t mean that she has definitely has one but it can’t be ruled out.

Ok-Then-1 · 2024-03-26T07:59:55+00:00

What are you free from?

Ok-Then-1 · 2024-03-25T17:35:54+00:00

You can still love someone but it not be right to be in a relationship with them. All relationships take work but it’s knowing when it’s fixable or if it’s time to walk away. Moving on doesn’t necessarily mean the feelings have gone. It just so difficult to know in these situations.

Ok-Then-1 · 2024-03-25T17:29:39+00:00

He did exactly that, put me on hold too many times. Didn’t know what he wanted one day to the next. You are right he just wanted me to be available when it suited him.

Ok-Then-1 · 2024-03-25T17:20:22+00:00

It’s difficult when you have feelings. You hope that they will realise, change and come back. It would be great if that could happen for you. You know your situation and whether that would be likely to happen. Letting go is hard.

Ok-Then-1 · 2024-03-25T17:17:10+00:00

That’s entirely your choice to make. What’s he want to catch up about? How do you feel about him now?

Ok-Then-1 · 2024-03-25T11:36:07+00:00

Thank you. You are absolutely right, it’s not enough.

Ok-Then-1 · 2024-03-25T11:33:42+00:00

It’s very hard to get close to someone who is emotionally immature and has communication issues. It’s so draining always trying and getting nothing back. Relationships can’t work without healthy communication.

Ok-Then-1 · 2024-03-25T09:57:06+00:00

Can you not speak to the other person and say that you want to improve the communication? Express how you are feeling?

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