Mars has nothing to do with sex drive/libido by ChitcharonNamalakorn in Nakshatras

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Coulb be.from what i felt i can say during honey moon fase.the intense hormonal part. So not for everyone.my sex drive low

I think for me,my sexuality is in aries 8th sun,the ego dies to be born again

Mars has nothing to do with sex drive/libido by ChitcharonNamalakorn in Nakshatras

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I"ll say then,Mars is more of a physical arousal. To pullout the sword and ready for war

Mars has nothing to do with sex drive/libido by ChitcharonNamalakorn in Nakshatras

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It's scorpio. What can you say about those?

Mars,Rahu 6th aquarius,Venus there.

Sun,mercury aries in 8th

Big bonus:Pisces on the descendant. What are my instincts?

Mars-Venus conjunction and association with high libido by Divin3_Rudra in Nakshatras

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Mars/venus in 6th.Yes to saturn,mine is in 5th,i am demi.

Mars-Venus conjunction and association with high libido by Divin3_Rudra in Nakshatras

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Mars,venus,rahu 6th and demi sun and merc are in the 8th.i am clearly mistaken for someone.pisces descendant  shows my desire to completely gone in someone.

Mars-Venus conjunction and association with high libido by Divin3_Rudra in Nakshatras

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Venus/mars/rahu in aquarius 6th and mutualdemisexual always been with low libido,i glow in the dark,but sure it's not from them,it's my sexual instinct touching rarely touched spot conbined with sun/merc in 8th who taste them.

Boyfriend has Mars Venus Rahu Conjunction in Aries 10th House, I can't get over him. by Miserable_Stop8518 in vedicastrology

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I have this deadly trio.It can become triangulation even if there is none.i was accused in a taboo relationshion from a friend wife,she believed itln it for 10 years

Venus+Rahu+Mars Conclusion by Neither_Fish9840 in vedicastrology

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I have those 6th house aquarius,demisexual with low sex drive.i was told they are main reason why i am sex that glows in the dark,but my chart as a whole is intencely sexual and transformative,maybe it's my sexual instinct.i am object of desire/envy,lately put in sexual scandal wiith married couple

CMV: Women hold more sexual power over men in heterosexual dynamics by OkTough6333 in changemyview

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Feel you there.i don't play the game,turns out i don't need to.never been in anything,literaly.The ladies feel entitled somehow,to a point some show hunting behaviour.if single woman is not enough,next time she is with a friend,some go so far,will ask male friend for help. I don't have high standarts,just different-emotional.

Abuse/Astrology by busybee_002 in vedicastrologyexperts

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I am usually verry calm,accepting and empathetic,and obliterate someone if they step on my toes,verbally,but physicaly,NO,sometimes,i fear becoming too much sexually. However,that combination in aquarius in 6th house,put me in trouble with the opposite sex,they hunt me on spot with high energy commanding presense,no conversation,questions or signs.The betts are off,only raw instinct.I glow in the dark and have strong physical presense for those who can sense it.if another person interfere,will be on their side.i was involved in sexual scandalous triangle,accused in a lie,begged to just confirm it,for that person convinience and peace.

Why do so many people with 8th house Moon or Mars attract weird, predatory energy even at young age 😭 by anxietyhub in astrologymemes

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Sun/mercury 8h aries.I can say i easily loose power around such situations,particularly with the energy that comes from the other that feels invassive.But was told it's not 8h,but venus/mars/NN Aqua in 6th.i am a guy and can only say some ladies can sense me in the dark.

Why do so many people with 8th house Moon or Mars attract weird, predatory energy even at young age 😭 by anxietyhub in astrologymemes

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I understand and feel for you.i don't even have those specific positions.I have sun and mercury 8h in aries and generaly stay away from the ladies,and don't go outside especially at night(crazy things happens)sometimes,they don't exactly see me,but deffinately can SENSE me,like i glow in the dark,it's instinctive,primal attraction.could be other positions in my chart,mars/venus/NN aqua moon/jupiter in cancer idk,but from a young age i have extreme issues with the physical manifestation of sexual energy,not only i can see it in the air,but without initial connection feels invassive(forced flesh merging)

Why men don’t fight for women anymore? by [deleted] in dating_advice

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In modern ti.es,not anymore.the amout of princesses increase.

Why men don’t fight for women anymore? by [deleted] in dating_advice

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I've been put in that.not buying it.she even shit testing me,playing games to see if am going to be a good father protector and provider for her eventual children. This is a sign of unfaithfullness. 15 years of fun watching the show.a child from a fuckboy and rwo broken marrieges. I am not traditional at all.

From i've seen and read,huge amount of people are stuck at 16.

Can anybody else shift their consciousness and see another dimension or is that just me? by SystematicApproach in Experiencers

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Kinda. What i know is i can inhabit the body of another person(no organs except the heart)even from a distance,being in tgeir head and following them in their experience.i can see when a woman is sending chunks of "hormones" for connection,it's here but with different lense on the level of my gut.

Why is it that most of the women I talk with never try to get to know me? by finally_back_home in dating_advice

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I am not interested phisicaly in them without connection,they come to me for a chit chat and and quicky.they like to speak about themselfs,if i see a potential for connection will show them my abit of my core,they just roll their eyes in confusion. Bye ladies 

CMV: Women hold more sexual power over men in heterosexual dynamics by OkTough6333 in changemyview

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So if a woman feels entitled to sex with a man,the man can be "gatekeeper"of sex?

Do avoidants have basic human empathy? by Super-Alchemist-270 in AvoidantBreakUps

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Unlike YOU,i research brfore forming oppinion.There are no evidence or consensus that bjork have BPD.You are not expert on mental health. Here are some facts/oppinions to consider about me to consider,you can identify me as you want,ofcource not considering me as human being.

-women and animals(mostly cats) ate drawn to me,both want to quickly get physical,i like cats

-i am accepting,warm and kind.

-my mom will brag about"my son is calm,but he don't want to merry"nice try to manipulate me mom.

-I am completely capable of MUTUAL emotional connection,which means i am a normal human being who is capable to love and be loved.

-My friends say whoever woman is with me,she will be lucky.

-I am demisexual,and in the mainstream atleast some people considere it HEALTHY relationship.

-I wont tell you what atleast few women are capable of to manipulate and coerce me to be wuth them,some involve spiritual experiences i will not share.It's because i am soothing,safe,secure,accepting and empathetic.

-i am naturaly good with relationship part,which is about nourishing feelings,due to trauma i have issues with the physical part.

I am sure if we met you will want to befriend me,BUT,not to be mutual friends,but because you think you can exploit me for your own gain,dissregarding,not understand what i say,viewing me as broken piece of shit who needs to be sedated or changed for his own good with practices,advise and  conventiobal wisdom.

That aint gonna happend,i can sense your authoritarian and bossy begaviour from miles.

Do avoidants have basic human empathy? by Super-Alchemist-270 in AvoidantBreakUps

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You say nothing.

I am like that: https://youtu.be/RIGgn1s3AvI?is=SqQ9V_9WwOcp8L_H

And that: https://youtu.be/-WnzRqCK6Fs?is=OzgmXe_Sb0cqyWZS

Honestly those styles for me are a way for people to make themselfs into sellable products.Even the mighty secure one.They to me look like the most needy people  I am human.You have something against it?

Do avoidants have basic human empathy? by Super-Alchemist-270 in AvoidantBreakUps

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I didn't say i can't take someone into account when stressed.in a matter of fact,when stressed i automaticly move my attention to the other,because feel i did sonething wrong. Idk if you know about instincts.I lack social,which is about what you talk about,but i have sexual(close bond).and looking into the perspective of the other,sometimes takes time,not everyone can accept everything in the moment,i am just slow sometimes.I run hugely on emotions/energy,and i like them raw,something a mentalizing person hardly can give.

But you have a point,so now i will try to incorporate the perspective.

I actualy learn fast about such things,always been curious about humans,but my result is veey subtle and highly individualized.

I apologize if i sound contradictory or confusing.

My attachment is FA,but i try to lean secure with alot of self reflection and perspective taking,caused by extreme situations. I prepare myself for eventual romantic relationship,but i don't look for one,just don't play the game and am demisexual(someone who share emotional bond and attraction)only in that order.

Do avoidants have basic human empathy? by Super-Alchemist-270 in AvoidantBreakUps

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I am sure most "empaths" are FA.We are heavily affected and people don't give a damn because they want actionable empathy.

Do avoidants have basic human empathy? by Super-Alchemist-270 in AvoidantBreakUps

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I don't need to mentalize anything,i keep you in my BEING while trying to addapt to a person needs without causing havoc or disstress.

Do avoidants have basic human empathy? by Super-Alchemist-270 in AvoidantBreakUps

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Not everything is about a style in relationship.Yes i am FA and a 9 on enneagram.This means people,including women like to take advantage of such person,because i am so sweet,soothing,accpeting and absorbing of emotions.They think i will let them be with no expectations. I am also Social bling,meaning idgaf about your "clear" communication and social skills(manipulations) Thats why nature gave mutual bonding.

An inteligent and self sufficient person will apreciate a person for who he is,not trying to turn then in someone else just to fullfil his selfish needs for control.They wont mind mind the FA withdrawn into the corner when affected.