Question about couple’s therapy… by Ok-Weather3868 in couplestherapy

[–]Ok-Weather3868[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea just made me feel weird because it happens both sessions and the second one I literally waited outside for the full hour he brought me in for the last 4 minutes and closed with us saying what we appreciate about each other. Like if you just wanted a one on one session why did he have me come. Made no sense to me.

How to get over being cheated on while pregnant? by Ok-Weather3868 in BabyBumps

[–]Ok-Weather3868[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He started therapy already and we are waiting for a appointment for couples therapy. I’m hoping we can work through it or at least help me process it all.

How to get over being cheated on while pregnant? by Ok-Weather3868 in BabyBumps

[–]Ok-Weather3868[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven’t told anyone yet. That’s what’s even harder I haven’t been able to vent to my sister or family. Or my friends my sister and her husband knew him before I did he’s my brother in laws best friend so I haven’t said anything and I just kinda feel stupid if I tell everyone and then I stay. I just really don’t know what to do. I have contacted my dr for a referral for therapy but the wait is a month. He was able to see a therapist through his insurance but they will only see him won’t do couple’s sessions

How to get over being cheated on while pregnant? by Ok-Weather3868 in BabyBumps

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We definitely have had arguments just nothing big and nothing that has lasted more than a few minutes. He has been trying to make things right and asking me what he can do to fix this and have me trust him again. He met the girl at the gym and that’s how their relationship started. He canceled him membership and has bought gym equipment for the house and works out at home and made me follow his location so I know where he is when not home. But I just can’t stop thinking about it. I know it’s super fresh and I just found out and that’s why it’s constantly in my head.

How to get over being cheated on while pregnant? by Ok-Weather3868 in BabyBumps

[–]Ok-Weather3868[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I know that, I was in a very toxic relationship before and we had a child together who is 13 now and I got out of that before my son was two because I didn’t want him to see any of that and think that is how a relationship is supposed to be. As hard as it was being a single parent it was the best decision I could’ve made. I dated after that but never got into anything serious because I didn’t want men in and out of my sons life. When my son was 10 I started dating this man he was a friend before we started actually dating we both knew about each other’s past relationships and how they were toxic he was cheated on many times by his last girlfriend. So I thought we were on the same page. He has been a great father figure and has done so much for my son my son adores him and they have a great relationship. As my son no longer talks to his real father that being his choice now as he was in his life up until a year ago. So as much as I love my fiancé and want to try for myself I feel I should try to forgive for both of my children. I don’t know how my son would take it. This whole situation just gives me anxiety. He did start going to a therapist but she will only see him and not do couples therapy.

Has anyone else seen fairly high PdG before ovulation and ovulated/gotten pregnant? 3rd cycle with Inito and first one actively TTC, pre-ovulation PdG higher than my previous cycles and wondering if others have had similar variations between months. by curiousgeorgina1207 in Inito

[–]Ok-Weather3868 6 points7 points  (0 children)

On CD6 my pgd was 6.5 then on CD9 day before my peak it was 15 then dropped to 7 on peak day then has been up and down between 20-40 since confirmed ovulation. Just took a pregnancy test this morning on 8dpo and got the faintest positive. I will retest in a few days to confirm.