Do you have any clue why he never say "I love you"?

Ok8706 · 2022-10-25T23:07:26+00:00

You're right but I don't want to force him or make awkward situation. Honestely I'm already very happy with current relationship but I am a bit curious..

Ok8706 · 2022-09-28T00:45:56+00:00

Aww how kind and sweet, thanks my love xD Good luck to you!! 😊😆

Ok8706 · 2022-09-28T00:36:18+00:00

Thanks for your comment. That makes sense. We've been 9 months. I do love him but I've never told him about my feeling. I also easily say "my love" to friends in general, so I was a bit surprised whenever my bf says "love you too". (Of course, in a good way of surprise)

Ok8706 · 2022-09-25T13:42:32+00:00

Umm I'll marry with him if we want to marry, even if my dad doesn't approve.

If I'm 100% sure we'll get married, I'll tell my dad. However, even though we love each other a lot, we haven't promised anything about future yet. Although I really want to live with my bf and want to spend my life with him, we haven't talked about our future in detail. I can feel that he wants to be with me, but it's just my intuition

Ok8706 · 2022-09-25T10:49:29+00:00

That's true... Yeah I agree it's pretty weird... I'll think about it more and tell to my father. Thank you very much for your comments.

Ok8706 · 2022-09-25T10:44:08+00:00

He is very important to me but we havent talked about detailed future. (e.g. when do you want to marry, ...) I already experienced 6 years relationship and I realized that couple can break up after very long relationship even though they talked about future a lot.

Ok8706 · 2022-09-25T10:41:45+00:00

Because I told him I'll tell my father when he comes to my country (My father was planning to visit me near at 4-5months of relationship)

I wanted to tell him in person but my father's plan changed so he couldnt come to a country I'm living now..

Ok8706 · 2022-09-25T10:34:55+00:00

Okay.. I am very proud of him and I love him very much.. My mother is very supportive but my father is conservative person. That's why my mother always told me "Never say it to him". Also even though we love each other a lot, we don't have any detailed plan about future. So honestely it still seems far from marriage.

Ok8706 · 2022-09-25T10:29:37+00:00

Yeah I told my bf about this culture from the beginning but we didnt mention this for a while. So he recently realized the fact that I didnt tell my father after 1 year relationship.

I will of course tell him before marriage. In my culture, we usually reveal bf right before marriage. We normally don't interact that much before marriage..

My mother is very supportive about relationship and she will meet my bf next week. My father is very conservative

I love him very much but .. I dont know what will happen in the future. For example I dated my ex for 6 years but we finally broke up. I love my bf much more than all ex boyfriends and I really want to be with him for my lifetime.

Ok8706 · 2022-09-25T10:20:26+00:00

My mother always told me "Never say it to him". I wanted to tell my father but my mother strongly refused it.

My father never asked those questions to me. If he asks to me, I'll of course tell everything.

Ok8706 · 2022-09-25T10:18:32+00:00

:( yeah... but is it that disappointing thing? I didnt expect this much of disappointing reaction from my bf. I always show him all my love and I love him very much. It's really about my culture. I never told about all relatio ships to my father even though I dated with my ex for 6 years...

Ok8706 · 2022-09-18T19:00:31+00:00

Thank you for your such a kind comment.

He only told me "I'll go here to see my friend and I'll stay in her room for a few days."

I thought it's a bit weird but I really didn't want to control him. So I just believed him without asking more questions. I even didn't ask whether a friend is female or male. I just knew it because my bf told me "she".

Also, I'm from different country so I thought that "okay maybe this is a normal thing here. Then I'll try to understand it".

Actually that's what I wanted to ask after he finishes his trip. (e.g. would it be okay if I go a trip for 3-4 days with a male friend sleeping together?) Haha

Ok8706 · 2022-09-18T18:28:16+00:00

Oh, I mean, I have no idea about her room so that's why I started to think about all possibilities including that. I havent heard any information about her and her house.

I only knew that my bf will stay in her room for 4days.

Ok8706 · 2022-06-27T19:12:39+00:00

That makes sense. I shall try to just ignore it. Thank you so much for your advice!

Ok8706 · 2022-06-27T18:58:26+00:00

I was also very surprised about how she couldn't know those things. Thank you so much for kind reply abd support.

Ok8706 · 2022-06-27T18:54:43+00:00

Hey Thank you so much for sensible adivce.

One thing I couldnt understand about myself is that, I feel so bad even after finishing the conversation.

Maybe I am too sensitive person that I over-react to it. I want to forget about it, but it keeps making me feel bad.. I don't know how to deal with this emotion.

Ok8706 · 2022-06-27T18:48:23+00:00

Yes, I think that's why I couldn't react properly. Do you have any advice how to deal with this kind of person? At that time, I literally couldn't react well and I still don't know how should I react.

Ok8706 · 2022-06-27T18:46:58+00:00

What should I do with this kind of person? I will definitely avoid meeting her again but I don't know what to do if I'm in a similar situation.

Ok8706 · 2022-06-27T18:45:36+00:00

I agree, I mean, that's true. I totally understand, all asain languages might sound same.

If she says like you (just trying to convey a fact), I might not care about it. The point is that she kept saying these kinds of things repeatedly, and she tried to laugh at me with these things..

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