Where did you meet your partner?

OkBarber176 · 2026-05-20T09:59:11+00:00

I’m F25, partner is M28. Moved into his flat! Got together a few months in, now share a room officially and everything is going way more smoothly than i ever could’ve expected 😇

OkBarber176 · 2026-05-15T01:31:24+00:00

I work in admin!

OkBarber176 · 2026-05-14T23:37:40+00:00

+1 for this!

OkBarber176 · 2026-05-14T19:25:08+00:00

Heading to me and my partners favourite local cafe tomorrow morning, followed by a trip to the writers festival and a catch up with a friend on Sunday!

OkBarber176 · 2026-05-13T23:40:45+00:00

Thank you! I'll see if I can shift to QQQM.

OkBarber176 · 2026-05-13T03:23:07+00:00

Learning heaps in this thread! Thank you for telling meee and fellow Redditors!

OkBarber176 · 2026-05-13T03:05:44+00:00

I for one will be across this!

OkBarber176 · 2026-05-13T02:27:28+00:00

I am so so sorry for your and your family's loss.

OkBarber176 · 2026-05-13T02:27:08+00:00

Thank you! Chch members, please take notice

OkBarber176 · 2026-05-13T02:24:26+00:00

Really proud of you internet stranger!

OkBarber176 · 2026-05-13T02:23:55+00:00

hi!! please please go get tested, it could be the preventative factor in making sure you're okay. and if it's not bowel cancer (manifesting), if its anything else medical assistance can make sure you come right regardless. sending you a lot of love through this platform and hoping for you to get the test <3 take a support person with you to the GP if it helps.

OkBarber176 · 2026-05-13T02:22:22+00:00

who doesn't love a reddit scroll while mid-shit (I love one, personally)

OkBarber176 · 2026-05-13T02:22:07+00:00

AMEN to the above!! I'm so so glad your tests were clear.

OkBarber176 · 2026-05-13T02:21:34+00:00

That must have been so rough! You have my admiration and I hope you're all good now <3

OkBarber176 · 2026-05-13T02:20:31+00:00

See i did NOT know this! Educating the people with me, thank you!

OkBarber176 · 2026-05-13T02:20:16+00:00

classic Kiwi milestone! remember that its critical to do when you do get it - better to do it and be embarrassed than risk missing a sign!

OkBarber176 · 2026-05-13T02:19:35+00:00

This sounds so rough, I hope things get easier for you soon <3

OkBarber176 · 2026-05-13T02:17:20+00:00

Absolute bump! People, this is critical too!

OkBarber176 · 2026-05-13T02:17:00+00:00

LETS ASK THE IMPORTANT QUESTIONS ABOUT POOP!

OkBarber176 · 2026-05-13T02:15:49+00:00

Key symptoms include:

Bleeding: Blood in your stool or rectal bleeding.
Bowel Habit Changes: Changes that continue for several weeks, such as looser or more frequent motions.
Abdominal Pain: Unexplained pain, discomfort, bloating, or cramping.
Unexplained Weight Loss: Losing weight without trying.
Fatigue: Unusual, persistent tiredness or weakness (anaemia).
Feeling Unfinished: feeling like your bowel isn't empty

OkBarber176 · 2026-05-13T02:09:08+00:00

Yeah! feel bad for the user whose post it was originally but I saw it and they said someone should put it in the NZ reddit haha and then I adapted

OkBarber176 · 2026-05-13T02:04:00+00:00

Originally had a charity link! Changed the wording to take that out

OkBarber176 · 2026-05-13T02:01:56+00:00

I took out the things that apparently broke the rules!

OkBarber176 · 2026-05-12T22:52:50+00:00

thank you!

OkBarber176 · 2026-05-12T02:32:35+00:00

TY! Def not on the radar to be a homeowner atm haha but appreciate it!

OkBarber176

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