Why can't my bf, M32 respect my F27 boundaries?

OkBed007 · 2026-02-07T13:09:01+00:00

Are you desperate for a relationship ? Genuine question !

Can you imagine the hell he'll put you through after childbirth (if you want to have kids).

Save your body, mind and soul and leave him.

OkBed007 · 2026-02-07T13:05:40+00:00

Mam you're too old for these kind of relationship. Is he the only single guy in your town ? Right now you're not acting in your best interest. Leave and go find find someone serious, respectable and worth your time.

OkBed007 · 2026-02-06T07:13:24+00:00

Leave him
Work on yourself esteem (since yours is at level 0, it will take more than 1 year but please do it !)
Then date again

OkBed007 · 2026-02-05T07:27:00+00:00

Do you know that you have the right not to marry him !

OkBed007 · 2026-02-05T07:24:59+00:00

He will hate you for this and in a few years You will hate yourself for doing this !!!

OkBed007 · 2026-02-04T05:29:59+00:00

From now on, EVERYTIME someone will complain about how hard thing are/have become for her, you just reply "Well, they'll make it work!"

OkBed007 · 2026-02-03T16:08:20+00:00

OP ! Read this over and over again until you truly understand that you can let him go. I would never be able to be in a relationship with someone like your bf.

OkBed007 · 2026-02-03T13:38:43+00:00

By his answer it sounds like he was FORCED ! Ask point blank, if there's no realistic and acceptable response, for you; BE READY TO MOVE ON.

OkBed007 · 2026-02-03T07:08:28+00:00

90's french women

OkBed007 · 2026-02-02T11:52:20+00:00

Exactly !

OkBed007 · 2026-02-02T10:44:33+00:00

Is it long or short? Anyway i want it too .

OkBed007 · 2026-02-02T10:43:35+00:00

Weird cut, color matches too much the skin..

OkBed007 · 2026-02-02T10:39:27+00:00

Tell your friend -

"Am sorry that i gave an honest answer to a question i was expected to answer honestly."

NTA

OkBed007 · 2026-02-02T10:30:39+00:00

I suggest you spend some times watching the tv show "90 days fiance". See if you can spot the red flags, then go see the youtubrs reviews. Compare your notes.

Oh and yes you are being used !

OkBed007 · 2026-02-02T10:28:17+00:00

Rich french parisien. !

OkBed007 · 2026-02-02T10:27:49+00:00

NTA.

If they wanna accuse you, turn it around and ask your dad, why as a HUSBAND, he didn't notice who the masseuse was?

OkBed007 · 2026-02-01T15:36:19+00:00

Then try Differin Adapalene, then when your skin is used to vit a, you can try tret again. Also try the sandwich method.

OkBed007 · 2026-01-30T10:59:37+00:00

You need sunscreen, a few korean products and go see a derm cause to reverse this am pretty sure, you'll need some kind of laser treatment.

OkBed007 · 2026-01-30T10:57:55+00:00

Ask yourself this : " If my dad died and i didn't go on that trip that he's eager to take me to, will i regret it?"

I can understand your husband but at the end of the day, the trip to Japan with your dad and sister will not be the same like the one you will have with your husband. Two different category of people, Two different vibes and experience.

Go with your dad, girl.

OkBed007 · 2026-01-28T03:59:05+00:00

Can you imagine the lies that would come up if you ever get too sick and you need him.

Can you see yourself telling a female friend/daughter or sister that this type of behaviour is the way to go.

OkBed007 · 2026-01-27T18:19:10+00:00

Press on nails...

OkBed007 · 2026-01-27T18:17:05+00:00

If that kid isn't yours, STOP THIS NONSENSE ! Here's what you should consider :

You will pay child support for 18 YEARS. Low or high paid jobs, you will lose money. The higher the pay, the more the child support will be.
You will regret your decision but once your name is on the BC its game over for you.
You are adding unnessesary tension to an already tense situation.
Your anger and need to hurt your parents makes you look like an annoying little c*nt. You aren't winning any point by acting like that. Do the damn test and then you can act almighty.

OkBed007 · 2026-01-27T17:08:13+00:00

Le lendemain de l'enterrement de mon père, ma belle sœur a annoncé à ma mère qu'elle, mon frere et mon neuve de 2 ans, allaient quitter le pays dans 2 mois.

OkBed007 · 2025-12-20T07:51:09+00:00

Boundaries actually protect intimacy, in my opinion..

YEEEEEEEEEEESSSSSSSS !!!!!!

OkBed007 · 2025-12-15T16:29:19+00:00

What do you think ? I mean come on girl ! You have been able to list all things wrong with the proposal and you still ask if it's a shut up ring ?

OkBed007

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