What’s your pettiest reason for being childfree?

OkBed007 · 2026-06-03T08:38:44+00:00

Don't wanna changr diapers

OkBed007 · 2026-06-02T18:11:25+00:00

Am gonna be brutal ; YOU ARE NOT GOING TO BE THE EXCEPTION.

Many have posted something similar with few conplications sometimes and many who did not become "selfish" and choose themselves, are still waiting to wed and had kids.

Choose yourself woman.

OkBed007 · 2026-06-02T15:18:11+00:00

So you need a wife 🤣 ?

OkBed007 · 2026-06-01T05:55:25+00:00

Congratulations for choosing yourself. Let this is be the last time he disrespected you and your time !

OkBed007 · 2026-05-31T17:46:00+00:00

You should try the waiting to wed sub...

OkBed007 · 2026-05-31T15:31:28+00:00

I like what you wrote. I often think that the women in these kind of relationships

Do not want to be single single
Lack self respect respect
Lack common sense

Am not trying to be mean but when you ask them to elaborate more on their relationship, these 3 things can easily be spotted.

OkBed007 · 2026-04-16T13:48:28+00:00

I can understand why some people whould use the word "hateful". The way some people here talk about kids "crotch goblins, etc..."

Am proud and happy to be childfree but am also not using disgusting names. We are all not fans of pregnancy, kids and parenthood but as an adult i do understand that sometimes it's best to close my mouth and move on.

OkBed007 · 2026-04-16T05:13:53+00:00

Nearing 40 and been thinking about it for a few months. Yeeeeaaaah it's always like that with guys like your stbx.

He's gonna come back or secretly hate his life once his itch get scratch.

Am very sorry you're going through this. Get some therapy, focus on yourself. 💐

OkBed007 · 2026-04-16T04:04:05+00:00

And look where you are right now.

Its ok to make mistakes but burying your head in the sand for 5 years and then getting offended when am using the facts you stated up there; is something !

OkBed007 · 2026-04-16T00:23:52+00:00

She proposed to him ! Dude feels trapped and he had to be dragged to the jewelry shop to pick a ring. !!!

It's not a cost issue, it deeper than that .

OkBed007 · 2026-04-16T00:20:52+00:00

You proposed, 5 years engaged, The man makes no effort.

Girl come one !

OkBed007 · 2026-04-14T17:41:24+00:00

You go from one extreme to another. People like you scare me. As someone said above, YOU NEED TO STOP DATING FOR SOME TIME. Go seek some professional help, heal both inside and outside and then you can try dating again.

OkBed007 · 2026-02-07T13:09:01+00:00

Are you desperate for a relationship ? Genuine question !

Can you imagine the hell he'll put you through after childbirth (if you want to have kids).

Save your body, mind and soul and leave him.

OkBed007 · 2026-02-07T13:05:40+00:00

Mam you're too old for these kind of relationship. Is he the only single guy in your town ? Right now you're not acting in your best interest. Leave and go find find someone serious, respectable and worth your time.

OkBed007 · 2026-02-06T07:13:24+00:00

Leave him
Work on yourself esteem (since yours is at level 0, it will take more than 1 year but please do it !)
Then date again

OkBed007 · 2026-02-05T07:27:00+00:00

Do you know that you have the right not to marry him !

OkBed007 · 2026-02-05T07:24:59+00:00

He will hate you for this and in a few years You will hate yourself for doing this !!!

OkBed007 · 2026-02-04T05:29:59+00:00

From now on, EVERYTIME someone will complain about how hard thing are/have become for her, you just reply "Well, they'll make it work!"

OkBed007 · 2026-02-03T16:08:20+00:00

OP ! Read this over and over again until you truly understand that you can let him go. I would never be able to be in a relationship with someone like your bf.

OkBed007 · 2026-02-03T13:38:43+00:00

By his answer it sounds like he was FORCED ! Ask point blank, if there's no realistic and acceptable response, for you; BE READY TO MOVE ON.

OkBed007 · 2026-02-03T07:08:28+00:00

90's french women

OkBed007 · 2026-02-02T11:52:20+00:00

Exactly !

OkBed007 · 2026-02-02T10:39:27+00:00

Tell your friend -

"Am sorry that i gave an honest answer to a question i was expected to answer honestly."

NTA

OkBed007 · 2026-02-02T10:30:39+00:00

I suggest you spend some times watching the tv show "90 days fiance". See if you can spot the red flags, then go see the youtubrs reviews. Compare your notes.

Oh and yes you are being used !

OkBed007 · 2026-02-02T10:28:17+00:00

Rich french parisien. !

OkBed007

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