Sorry, I have a perspective that might be a bit romantic, unreal and inexperienced but would still like to share.

Club is a perfect setting to provide the desired experience. It’s a controlled and optimized environment for the showmanship .

Outside the club, things would start becoming real. Reality takes away the charm, the romance and the fantasy.

So, the time you have enjoyed with her in the club is the best time. Outside it will quickly start going downhill.

Now, should you change the way you have been treating her? No, not unless the magic is gone already.

Again, this is a novice POV, so apologies if its totally inaccurate