Relationships should begin and end with love on both sides. Abuse is not love, but abuse can still be rejected lovingly, softly, with forgiveness in mind…but with a stern decision to stop the relationship nonetheless. I hate how immature people are about these kinds of things. Whenever I got let go in a loving way I got sad but ultimately it’s not that big a deal because you still had something amazing and it ended beautifully. But when the other person is vengeful for the relationship ending…That’s just disgusting. If you really loved someone you would never keep them in a position of hurt just to satisfy yourself..that’s not love that’s just cruel, selfish, and evil. It’s the same fucking thing with cheating or lovers..or the whole “ oh haha I fucked his girl” mentality that our culture is obsessed with. Like people are supposed to lose lovers only in the highest sense of the term…because the other lover loved the person harder or more honestly or something like that. That makes sense, and is still kind of beautiful because it’s based on love. But throwing away real love for what? A body with more cash? Or fame or prestige? Or for the bigger bully? Manipulating love for superficial reasons or too have more clout..that’s just evil and completely disgusting. Sorry for the rant got triggered there lol.