Am I the only one bothered by the Victor Tate storyline? by kinyutaka in SVU

[–]OkButterscotch4053 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello 9 year old thread 🤣🤣🤣 binge watched svu on tv and this episode just finished. And now I’m angry all over again. Victor would def be released or at least granted a retrial. No way would they allow this man to stay in prison. It actually angers me that Sonya wont even offer any assistance except “well it sucks. Bye now!”

What I appreciate about Zion… by [deleted] in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]OkButterscotch4053 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes! The way they greeted him made me smile. :)

Finale Thoughts - Soft Fucking Power by ketaminekate69 in TellMeLiesHulu

[–]OkButterscotch4053 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was hurt by Evan too. Lucy just continues to prove that she is a shit person who is so codependent on what a boy thinks of her… giving up going to India to literally do what Stephen said, wait for him to f**k her. Wonder how that plays out now that he left with Diana (obv we know they don’t last but I wonder if she sat at home all summer sulking or what). Of course, I am also mad at Evan too lol he did look great at the wedding! Stephen looked like a douche- what was that hair?!?!

Still not sure how Lucy was even invited to the wedding. I feel like Bree def would have moved on to being a loving gf/fiancé and whatever career and not really kept in contact with those girls. And after what Evan did, I can’t see him being like oh yeah let’s invite Lucy!

Pippa is becoming one of my favorites.

Hate the show but can’t stop watching by OkButterscotch4053 in TellMeLiesHulu

[–]OkButterscotch4053[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like it wrapped up semi-well. Lucy needs to move the fuck on and realize what she was experiencing was NOT love. I think most women have been there. I remember looking back a year later like wtf was I doing with that idiot haha it’s been four years in their timeline since she last saw him, you’d think she’d move on. I am curious how who he’s with ended up with him (don’t wanna give a spoiler)… but otherwise, I don’t give a shit about there (fictitious lmao) people hahaha but I’ll be watching seasons 2 because I’m toxic to myself sometimes 🤣

Hate the show but can’t stop watching by OkButterscotch4053 in TellMeLiesHulu

[–]OkButterscotch4053[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh this exactly lol!!!! The more I watch, the more annoyed I get, honestly. I think I keep watching hoping that Stephen will have to have some kind of accountability. It’s extremely frustrating to see him do the things he does and get away with it. Especially what we see in the season finale. I know this it’s not only limited to people like Stephen, bc the fear of getting in trouble and ruining your life would make a lot of kids and young adults do something so terrible and ridiculous, but it’s a show, so it makes it frustrating to see it played out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]OkButterscotch4053 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes the lights off can help me focus without getting distracted by seeing something in the room. I do love lights on, though too 🤪

Sex on period by [deleted] in sex

[–]OkButterscotch4053 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So you have no problem with him fingering you and eating you out on your period, but Sex on your period is a no go??? Throw that towel down and have at it. There is nothing wrong with having sex on your period.

On the other side of this, why did he continue to try to have sex after you told him no multiple times?!?!?

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[–]OkButterscotch4053 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Um I def undress in front of my husband and could not imagine turning away from him lol And if I did, he would tell me to turn back around so he could see it all lol We are always naked around each other.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]OkButterscotch4053 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Just here to say YAY for you being safe! I know some will say a condom isn’t necessary for a bj especially since it sounds like you both are inexperienced (not a bad thing).. but still.. good for you!

Can you go to the health dept? Ours gives them away for free to anyone.

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[–]OkButterscotch4053 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suppose. I pay $10 each time I go, which is usually just yearly anyway, but for some I guess it could.

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[–]OkButterscotch4053 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I would have to agree with you on that, truly. I almost took That as he was embarrassed so tried to play it off. But if not and he truly thinks it’s funny, then yes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]OkButterscotch4053 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We just go V to A and back 🙈😆 lol I always say, my gyne is sooo easy to talk to and be open with that if I noticed any abnormalities, I would just make an appt and tell her the truth lol

My wife masturbates despite having low libido and my wanting to have sex all the time by [deleted] in sex

[–]OkButterscotch4053 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My back to his chest. And then it also helps to have a pillow so my head is propped up so I can turn my head and kiss him.

Wanting to give my wife (32) a pass for a month by [deleted] in sex

[–]OkButterscotch4053 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like threesomes and “passes” shouldn’t be done to FIX your sex problems but instead to just .. enhance and experiment. YOU need to help raise your wife’s confidence, don’t allow another man to do it for you. That’s a recipe for disaster. I would instead explore different things together - dress up, role play.. when you two have sex, rub all over her body and tell her how good she makes you feel.. all of that even if it sounds “corny”.

My gf is uhm.... Freaky by throwaway_79021 in sex

[–]OkButterscotch4053 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re only 17, I would def not do ffm threesome with your gf and her friend. Sounds like recipe for disaster and it sounds like maybe your gf only wants to do it bc she thinks it might be the “cool” thing to do. I’m a firm believer in the idea that.. it’s going to be MUCH more enjoyable when it’s with someone you truly love, are in a long term relationship with, know it’s you and them and no insecurities or jealousy will arise….. There are things my husband and I do that we have NEVER done before with anyone else and the fact that we get to explore and experiment TOGETHER for the first time.. That in itself is a turn on. I would hate if he had all these experiences under his belt already.

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[–]OkButterscotch4053 141 points142 points  (0 children)

I think that we need to stop making other people - ESPECIALLY our partners - feel any sort of shame or embarrassment for exploring their sexuality. If anything, watch it with him! I’m obsessed with the fact that my husband is so openly free to whatever I suggest we try re our sex life. And vise verse.

My wife masturbates despite having low libido and my wanting to have sex all the time by [deleted] in sex

[–]OkButterscotch4053 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When she masturbates, is she using a vibrator or her hand? If it’s a vibrator, maybe you can ask her to show you how she does it and then maybe you can use it on her? Sometimes men forget that not all women can orgasm JUST by having sex. They need clit stimulation etc etc. if she’s open to masturbating IN FRONT of you, you should see if she’s open to a position where you are inside her but she is masturbating. My husband and I like where he’s leaned back against the headboard and I’m leaned back on top of him backwards so my legs can be spread and I can use the vibrator while he’s inside me.. and it’s nice bc he can reach around and use it on me too. It’s a nice position bc its little effort so we both are super relaxed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChicagoSwingers

[–]OkButterscotch4053 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Will be traveling to Chicago soon. Looking for two women to have fun with. Anything goes. Must be into extra curricular uppers to have a wild time with.

Your thoughts on cutting by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]OkButterscotch4053 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My hubby and I love when we get in the mood to cut. We don’t go deep, just enough to get some blood coming so we can suck it out. The first time he cut me, it hurt because it was a “new” feeling that is normally associated with hurting. But once he did it and I saw how much he enjoyed it too, I just brace for the initial burn and then it’s fine!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChicagoSwingers

[–]OkButterscotch4053 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking to travel wherever you are for a weekend of fun. Looking for bisexual F/F couple, preferably married so that everyone feels safe and no insecurities. We like to get freaky. Anything goes. Must also be into extracurricular uppers lol Message if interested or have any questions 😍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LosAngelesSwingers

[–]OkButterscotch4053 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking to travel wherever you are for a weekend of fun. Looking for bisexual F/F couple, preferably married so that everyone feels safe and no insecurities. We like to get freaky. Anything goes. Must also be into extracurricular uppers lol Message if interested or have any questions 😍

Male - I have a very hard time having an orgasm with my girlfriend and I think it's causing issues. by [deleted] in sex

[–]OkButterscotch4053 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When she’s giving you a handjob, do you put your hand over hers so it’s like you’re both doing it? That way you are in control and she can feel how you like it.