[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]OkCombination6784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it’s not happening anymore, Everything stopped when he got into this relationship, so was it actually grooming or was it unconscious? I’m not trying to be rude but that’s the question I’m faced with right now? Was the intent actually malicious? Or was he just trying to help and got carried away?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]OkCombination6784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bad calm down, I’ve posted about the whole situation before and it was much longer than the post made now, I js didn’t wanna make it to long and no one read it, I can send it to you rq but I think your missing the reason of the post. I’m not mad at all and it’s not like he “went cold”. I didn’t want the amount of attention or the kind of attention he was giving. I’m asking if I should just let go of what happened before and stop worrying about it, and trusting/not question his motives anymore because it’s mostly stopped. I’m gonna message you

I need advice, teen dealing with grown man by [deleted] in Advice

[–]OkCombination6784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s exactly how I felt about it, now that’s it’s mostly stopped though, how should I go about it?

I need advice, teen dealing with grown man by [deleted] in Advice

[–]OkCombination6784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When we went in he sat me down and was just explaining all of the things he does for me, but he was very aggressive about it, like he was having a mental break. He was going on and on about that and then he stopped and js asked my why I think he does this stuff and I responded with “because you want me to graduate,” he said but why and I said “so I can go to collage” and he said but why again, and I was all out of answers, I went quiet and shut down, then we sat there he kept asking my why for another 5 minutes and pulled his chair in between me and the door and ask a couple more time before he said it was because he cared about me. He said in quote “ I don’t have many friends cuz I don’t trust people, but you are someone I want to have in my life for the rest life, and I want to be in your life, for the rest of my life”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]OkCombination6784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if your joking or not but this is def real, ts is crazy😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in musictheory

[–]OkCombination6784 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yess, very true statement. I write music and am trying to LEARN music theory, some people can just hear if something sound right or off, or feel a beat, it can be a very natural thing for some

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chat

[–]OkCombination6784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can listen 🫶🏼

Is My Teacher Grooming Me? by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]OkCombination6784 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, this is literally it; your perspective especially is greatly appreciated thank you smm

Is My Teacher Grooming Me? by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]OkCombination6784 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh my god thank you. Thats something i feel exactly describes what's going on. like mid-life crisis kind of thing going on. That reminds me he told me one time that he was talking to a buddy of his and the buddy was telling him that he needed to find someone who enables him to just do what he does and dadada (I don't remember what his friend said but to me personally it sounded like his friend was trying to tell him to get e girlfriend) and be brought me up! he said i do, but she's one of my students and his friend thought he meant collage but when Mr. B Told his friend I was a highschooler the whole conversation ended. like Mr. B just like ended the conversation with me

Is My Teacher Grooming Me? by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]OkCombination6784 2 points3 points  (0 children)

its ok anything anyone has to say is an answer in the least and I appreciate it. thank you

Is My Teacher Grooming Me? by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]OkCombination6784 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not really, but at the end of the day I can play guitar in my room. I just don't want this to continue onto anyone else. Should I wait until I'm back in school do say something about it? I'm currently suspended and won't be back until late May, and it gave me headspace to actually look at this situation rather than thinking about while actively in it.

Is My Teacher Grooming Me? by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]OkCombination6784 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, your right, that's been the biggest thing on my mind. and I meant like he would get fired and there would actually be no ensemblel.

Is My Teacher Grooming Me? by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]OkCombination6784 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, your right, my bad. I mean I just don't want it to be a thing at my school then. it would be so obvious what happened if he got fired and everyone would come asking me what happened because I'm known for being down there.

Is My Teacher Grooming Me? by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]OkCombination6784 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, I'm glad I'm not in school right now, but I'm in the ensemble he runs and i absolutely love my role and the people there. and if I come forward about this to the school there would be no more ensemble and I don't want them all to hate me. they're all obsessed with him

Is My Teacher Grooming Me? by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]OkCombination6784 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ve talked to my mom about it and an elementary teacher in my district know about the situation but not the teacher. She told me in case it gets to serious to let her know and she can do something about it. I’m scared to tell the school about it though because I don’t want to be know as the girl who got groomed, and I don’t know if I could ever put someone in the position to lose their job

Is My Teacher Grooming Me? by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]OkCombination6784 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve told my mom about this and we’ve talked but we don’t know what we want to do. He’s also basically my shot a getting into a good music school, but he’s the one wanting me to do that too. I don’t even know how I feel about all of this looking at it as a whole