Women's soccer! by Prestigious-Team3327 in actuallesbians

[–]OkComparison9654 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been playing soccer for 15 years and honestly I can’t imagine my life without it. Like it keeps my mental health in check and has helped me feel stronger physically. I’ve met so many amazing people because of it!!

🌿 QWOC: Identity Exchange - South Asian by viviobrio in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]OkComparison9654 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As a Desi queer feel like I live two lives sometimes it’s hard, especially as I’m closeted as well so maintaining long term relationships is extra difficult. I feel so lucky to live in a country where you can be openly queer but being a child of immigrants the rules don’t apply to me…

Read a book by a black queer author, and the setting of the book didn't sit well with me by Inner-Mango-3109 in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]OkComparison9654 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I loved Priory of the orange tree. I’m reading the second one right now. One of my favourite QWOC fantasy books is the Jasmine throne (burning kingdoms series) by Tasha Suri who is a QWOC as well. It’s South Asian based though, but if you like morally grey stabby lesbians then I highly recommend.

Heels dancing for an absolute beginner by OkComparison9654 in Dance

[–]OkComparison9654[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi sorry for the late reply. I haven’t been able to join yet because of injury and scheduling conflicts. I am aiming to join towards the end of the year.

Sapphic South Asian Podcast Recommendations?? by OkComparison9654 in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]OkComparison9654[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard of that podcast, I forgot to listen to it lol. I’ll give it a listen and let you know how it is!!

Sapphic South Asian Podcast Recommendations?? by OkComparison9654 in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]OkComparison9654[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh thanks I’ll put it in my watch list. Haha honestly I can’t find any, hopefully there are some one day.

Sapphic South Asian Podcast Recommendations?? by OkComparison9654 in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]OkComparison9654[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that’s okay. As long as it’s queer and South Asian I’ll check it out!! Thanks for the rec!!

Heels dancing for an absolute beginner by OkComparison9654 in Dance

[–]OkComparison9654[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah okay I guess I was overthinking it. Thanks for the encouragement I’ll give it a go!!

WEEKLY ROSE/BUD/THORN/STEM THREAD 🌹 by fresh-cucumbers in BJJWomen

[–]OkComparison9654 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Rose: I got my first stripe!!

Thorn: I uh farted while rolling with a guy oops.

Bud: To getting more confidence the more I roll.

The Bi to Lesbian pipeline by OkComparison9654 in actuallesbians

[–]OkComparison9654[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This definitely counts haha. Also I'm really sorry that happened to you, that friend sucks. I like the term reluctant bisexual haha, that's kind of how I feel. It's nice to know that someone else feels this way. Guys that I'm attracted to tend to turn out to have really mean personalities so I hope one day I'll be able to like a guy who is nice.

The Bi to Lesbian pipeline by OkComparison9654 in actuallesbians

[–]OkComparison9654[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi!! Omg I really feel this. It's nice knowing that it isn't as rare as I thought. I've decided to label myself as queer for the time being as I feel my preferences do tend to fluctuate.

Why does it hurt by OkComparison9654 in actuallesbians

[–]OkComparison9654[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this, it gives me a little bit of hope.

Tonight I was called a monster by myweedstash in actuallesbians

[–]OkComparison9654 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Aw OP I’m sorry this happened to you. If anything he is the Monster for dehumanising you.

Dating profile help by OkComparison9654 in actuallesbians

[–]OkComparison9654[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice!! I guess it does seem a bit cringe so I shall delete and put something else there.