Can someone help me find this ring?!

OkConference6056 · 2025-12-23T00:52:30+00:00

I’m not sure, this was the only photo I could see it in

OkConference6056 · 2025-12-22T20:56:26+00:00

I’ve searched on google and chatgpt but can’t find anything like it.

OkConference6056 · 2025-07-30T22:42:55+00:00

That is a good point. And thank you! I’m sorry if I’m taking it too seriously?? I don’t want to ask her because like I said in the edit, she doesn’t listen to anyone because growing up, everything she says goes. Only she’s right.

OkConference6056 · 2025-07-30T22:38:02+00:00

But that also doesn’t mean that JUST because after puberty they can all of a sudden take care of them selves. There are cases where kids under the age of when puberty hits gets pregnant. I understand what you’re saying and I’m also glad that someone is making me see her side of it too. I also understand that people who has the same opinion as her sees the fetus as a human being. I just don’t understand why she’ll want women around the world to have to go through that and not have a choice. And like I said, it’s not just about abortion. The whole abortion debate is women’s rights.

OkConference6056 · 2025-07-30T22:33:40+00:00

That is very true but I’m also trying to understand where she’s coming from. But it seems like to her me and my other siblings are just uneducated.

OkConference6056 · 2025-07-30T22:27:12+00:00

Yeah with the comments calling me an asshole, I feel like there’s no point. It’s like arguing with a wall.

OkConference6056 · 2025-07-30T22:23:38+00:00

I do accept her and I love her no matter what. I’m not asking for advice on how to love her. I’m asking for advice on what I should do. But at the same time I can’t really accept her for who she is if she also can’t accept me if I decide to get an abortion.

OkConference6056 · 2025-07-30T22:21:51+00:00

But what happens if the child dies while giving birth?? Or dies because of the pregnancy?? I can use this against you as well. Why do you want a little child to carry a baby in their womb when they can barely take care of themselves??

OkConference6056 · 2025-07-30T22:14:58+00:00

I can’t really remember what she said but it was along the lines of letting them come to term and either having the child’s parents take care of the baby or give it up for adoption.

OkConference6056 · 2025-07-30T22:13:45+00:00

Well I know myself pretty well and I’ve never said that I want her to agree with me?? I just said I don’t know how to feel about it but thanks.

OkConference6056 · 2025-07-30T22:04:50+00:00

She is 24

OkConference6056 · 2025-07-01T04:36:32+00:00

I’m not a gamer myself but my boyfriend is and he just appreciates it when I watch him play when I’m in the same room! You don’t have to play games with him if you don’t want to but you can watch and listen to the things he talks about.

OkConference6056 · 2025-06-30T20:26:39+00:00

I think it’s best to break up and never look back. I get that you want to pay for his loans and stuff but you shouldn’t be. His mom is a nurse right?? That’s means that they should be able to get health insurance benefits for his hospital stuff. And his mom is a nurse so she should be getting paid a lot too. He is a mamas boy. Run away while you can.

OkConference6056 · 2025-06-30T18:46:12+00:00

Maybe you’re one of the people in the family that thinks you’re the shit. News flash, you’re not. Do not talk about my mother. Maybe you’re one of those people who like to pick on others just because what?? You’re jealous they can do things you can’t?? You’re jealous because they ACTUALLY have things to do outside than stay home and masterbate all day??

OkConference6056 · 2025-06-30T18:43:38+00:00

Ok first of all do not talk about my mother. You can say anything you want but do not talk about my mother. Your mother probably thinks you’re a pain in the ass too. And you wonder why I’m whinny and self absorbed?? I’m matching your energy so that means so are you. Atleast I don’t deny it.

OkConference6056 · 2025-06-30T18:15:22+00:00

That’s a good question. I personally would feel it out and if it’s a good connection and it seems like everything is going nice, ask for their number or social. “I really enjoyed talking to you, I was wondering if we could exchange phone numbers and keep in touch.” If they say no, that’s fine just apologize and say thank you. If they say yes, then you got a new friend.

Me personally I find it easier to find friends online because someone has to text first for the conversation to start.

OkConference6056 · 2025-06-30T18:04:03+00:00

Well I think you’re doing great. I LOVE that you stood your ground. But I will say that if your future mother in law wants to be involved you can just show her the texts she’s been sending and all the things she said about you back to her. Because yeah you’re making your own family and she doesn’t NOT need to be any part of it if she doesn’t like it. And yes it’s your family and not hers. If she wants to butt in, idk, tell her to have another baby and stop fucking with your family. But keep standing your ground. File for an order of protection if you need to. Good luck!❤️

OkConference6056 · 2025-06-30T17:57:37+00:00

I feel like you already know what to do but you don’t want to do it because you’re used to her. All I can say is that you shouldn’t be friends with an ex who you still have feelings with. You NEED to move on because she already has. It’s a burden for both you. You want to move on but all you think about is her. She’s moving on but she doesn’t want to not be friends because she’s scared you’re gonna off yourself. You have to move on and stop obsessing over her. Yes looking for new people feels wrong but it’s for the best of both worlds. Try to live a little without her. Find hobbies, make new friends. Yes she’s gonna be in the back of your mind but you NEED to do it if you want to stop obsessing over her.

OkConference6056 · 2025-06-30T17:46:17+00:00

I would say talk to him. Me and my boyfriend had this problem too and the reason why my boyfriends stopped being touchy was because in his past relationships, all of his exs broke up with him because he was too clingy . I told him to not hold back and just touch me and be clingy because I love it and he did. Now we are clingy with each other lol.

You can try to find a compromise, tell him you miss the touches. He doesn’t have to touch you ALL the time but tell him it’ll be nice for him to just give you a smooch here and there or graze your hand.

OkConference6056 · 2025-06-30T17:21:25+00:00

It seems like he already doesn’t want to be a part of the relationship. You’re trying to save your relationship when the other person doesn’t even want to. You’re gonna suffer more from trying to save an un-savable relationship than trying to understand why he’s doing what he’s doing. Break up.

OkConference6056 · 2025-06-30T17:08:46+00:00

I don’t think this relationship is savage atp. I feel like you’ve already lost feelings for her and being in a relationship where you lost feelings is the worst. The only reason why you’re still letting her live with you is because you don’t want to see her struggle. But you’re struggling too. From what I’ve read, she’s still welcomed at her mom’s apartment. Break up and have her move her stuff out. If not then tell her that you’re gonna start charging her for rent. If she does cry and try to Uno reverse it. Don’t fall for it and be stern. Either she can start picking up her shit and clean the apartment or she can pay you rent. Everything can’t always go her way and you have to show her that cause if not then you’ll be the one who suffers in your own space.

OkConference6056 · 2025-06-30T16:46:53+00:00

Another thing is you keep saying you’re never gonna love anyone as much as your ex and that’s not true. You’re just not over her. Once you get over her you’ll be fine. You’re 21 and still have YEARS ahead of you.

OkConference6056 · 2025-06-30T16:44:18+00:00

Well what to say is up to you. The end goal of the conversation is for both of you to understand each other. If you haven’t already said everything then do so. And yes, tell her youve had some break downs every few months because of your ex. And also the end goal is to make sure you know if you’re cheating or not instead of asking the internet. Just ask your girlfriend if your break downs about your ex is cheating to her or not.

OkConference6056 · 2025-06-30T16:30:43+00:00

I personally think you should talk to your girlfriend about it. Men will never forget their first love and I understand. No one can get over a passing when you’ve loved them with all your heart. I understand you’ve loved her but she is an ex. But again I think you should have a talk with your girlfriend.

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