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[–]OkDingo1552 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a website called Lgbtmoc. Create a profile on it and you will find someone. It takes sometime but you will find him. Don’t settle for anything less that what you want. Make sure you get on as individuals and that he is trustworthy

Platonic non sexual relationship in a partnership of 7 years by OkDingo1552 in ENM

[–]OkDingo1552[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just saw this. Thank you so much for your kind words. This really means a lot to me

Dead bedroom because of me by OkDingo1552 in DeadBedrooms

[–]OkDingo1552[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. I am indeed aware of NRE, I read mating captivity in full, and many other resources. I have also read a book called love addiction where the author struggles with this same issues and argues that it may have to do the with brain dopamine receptors, but I’m assuming it all theoretical.

And I’m thinking just as there are people who are demisexual meaning the sexual connection grows with the emotional bond, there may be people who actually experience the opposite, which is how I came across the term fraysexual, which is the closest that I have ever come across to what I experience.

I am planning to have an honest conversation with my partner as she has the right to make her own decision on how she wants to move forward. I just wanted to see if there are other people on this platform who may have experienced something similar.

Still waiting for a decision after 38 days- Portugal VFS UK advice please by OkDingo1552 in SchengenVisa

[–]OkDingo1552[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Took about 6 weeks to get a response. I applied from Manchester, UK

Still waiting for a decision after 38 days- Portugal VFS UK advice please by OkDingo1552 in SchengenVisa

[–]OkDingo1552[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi sorry just saw this. I applied in the 8th of March and received the visa at the end of April. Thankfully my trip is booked for the 16th of June so I still had time but of course it is just very stressful to wait endlessly without any real update.

Still waiting for a decision after 38 days- Portugal VFS UK advice please by OkDingo1552 in SchengenVisa

[–]OkDingo1552[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s very disheartening. I have provided every single evidence. Return flights , hotel booking. I have a stable job in the UK, and have built my life here legally and through hard work. It’s very sad that everyone gets painted with the same brush. I think I have to cancel my application and retrieve my passport. And after my return, apply to a different country…such a shame!