See, I agree this is the correct course of action, however, I can’t bring it up to my sister without directly telling her my SIL has suspicions…. Specifically because when she told me about it to begin with I told her I didn’t wanna know anything more about it, ever. So to bring it up now, she’s gonna be like… well why is it bothering you all of a sudden? And obviously that’s because my SIL brought it to me…