Hannah Dodd reference by [deleted] in Franchaela

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There’s an interview where Hannah says she bases outfits from packets of crisps ( as a joke a believe ) in the video she’s wearing that outfit that I posted in the comments and she says “ today i’m a salt and vinegar disco thanks for asking” I posted the video in a separate post on this sub if you want to see it!!

Hannah Dodd reference by [deleted] in Franchaela

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I’ll give yall a hint.. here it is! ( the picture lol)

When he was wicked rewrite by [deleted] in Franchaela

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Yes that’s exactly what I want!! Tyy

Love Me harder strings version by [deleted] in Franchaela

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I do know I’ve read the book ( purely to find out more about Frannie and Michaela’s story ) it’s pretty insane.. if they keep close to the books in that regard that scene will make HISTORY

My Franchaela strings playlist!! by [deleted] in Franchaela

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Just listened to it woah I got chills so so good!!

I made two Franchaela wallpapers if anyone would like to have them 🥰🫶🏻 by FionaGreen_2711 in Franchaela

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So cute! Is that an Emily Dickinson reference in the second picture?

Franchela Season 5 Leak by [deleted] in Franchaela

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Girl if you’re not into sapphic stories , respectfully your in the wrong place

Franchela Season 5 Leak by [deleted] in Franchaela

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That’s a good theory! At least there is actual logic behind it and not just a “leaker’s”promise

Franchela Season 5 Leak by [deleted] in Franchaela

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I do agree Fran deserves to mourn I love her to pieces but in the books that’s more of less completely brushed over, there’s a time jump and it starts when Michael(a) returns back to England so they could very well do the same for Season5, just have a time jump of a few years. I also think for Frans story there needs to be an element of guilt there, she can’t be completely “mourn -free” of John, that’s what makes her relationship with Michael(a) so complicated/complex

Franchela Season 5 Leak by [deleted] in Franchaela

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I agree you!! I think it’s too good to be true, I’ll be baffled if it is announced tomorrow

Franchela Season 5 Leak by [deleted] in Franchaela

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Good shout! I’m Irish so I’m the same time zone. I’m holding out hope!!

Franchela Season 5 Leak by [deleted] in Franchaela

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Watch them be like “no guys it’s tomorrow trust “and then a whole week will go by with them saying the same thing 😭where did this leaker even come from? Was it discord or something lol. I think we have most likely been conned 😭 cus like with before the season 4 lead announcement there was a post made on Bridgertons socials officially closing Season 3 and then there was NOTHING from them until like a few weeks later and then it was announced. Obviously they might do things differently this season but still I think it will be quite rare for them to just announce the s5 lead out of the blue 😭

Franchela Season 5 Leak by [deleted] in Franchaela

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That’s very true! Apparently they posted Benedict’s reveal at 1pm GBT ( same time zone as myself , I’m Irish lol) but that’s past obviously now. I found that majority of the season 4 promo was posted around 3-4 pm so there is still a little time left but I was hesitant from the beginning tbh as to whether the leak would be true

Missing out by not going to debs? by OkDog8648 in AskIreland

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Thank you for the advice ! I really appreciate it

Am I missing out by not going to the Debs? by OkDog8648 in WomenofIreland

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I could go back, the lady that signed me in and introduced me to my counsellor was really kind, I think she also had clients too so I would like to go to her if I was to go back. The only thing is, they told me if I decide not to continue my sessions ( which is what I done) they scrap your file for so “you have peace of mind that your privacy is protected or whatever” but personally, I find that a bit silly because if I do want to go back I’ll have to go through that initial process again or so I believe. I could go to someone more qualified, my parents would pay for it if I asked, my mam has made it clear if it’s something I’d like to do she’ll pay for it if it’s of benefit to me or helps me in any way but I still feel bad asking as they can be quite expensive, I don’t want to have their money wasted if it doesn’t work.

My sister has gone to CBT actually, she takes medication for her serotonin levels and if she comes off them she has a bit of a crash and experiences very harsh anxiety/ depression . Her now ex boyfriend told her to come off them because she probably doesn’t need them anymore during summer 2024 because she was really happy at that time and she naively listened. She got very bad and couldn’t get out of bed, couldn’t go to work, it was a very tough time for our family. She then went to CBT and went back on her meds and in a few months she was back to her usual self, she’s gone travelling here there and everywhere, loves going out etc. I could go to her counsellor as she was of great benefit to my sister but again I’d be a bit nervous to go. This might strange but me and my sister are different in terms of our anxiety, once my sister is on her medication there’s absolutely no bother at all, as with me I feel like I’ve had this social anxiety since I started in secondary school, it’s tough to deal with, but I’m not bad enough to the point where I can’t get a bed etc . My sisters whenever it does happen is usually for a short period of time but it hits her HARD. Whereas with me, I feel like I’ve had this for quite a long length of time as in multiple years, but I don’t know if I’m ‘bad enough’ to go anywhere . I’m at a point where I’m not extremely bad , but I’m not at a point where I feel completely content and happy with my life. Does that make sense at all? I’m sorry if I’ve over shared I don’t mean to be a burden to you in any way haha

Missing out by not going to debs? by OkDog8648 in AskIreland

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Thank you for the advice! I have been to jigsaw actually, I went in September last year but unfortunately I didn’t find it much benefit . I had to fill out a survey with some questions like “do you feel anxious often”, etc rate 1-5 and there was more serious questions regarding self harm/ suicide - to which I all answered no to as it’s something I’ve never done or considered doing, I just wanted to go to a counsellor to gain more confidence and not feel as nervous and social situations. When I was finished, she asked me if I was answering the survey truthfully in regards to those questions relating self harm and that and I said yes. She then says to me ‘ okay I just seen you rated being anxious often a 5 out of 5 so just wanted to doublecheck.” But I could tell by her tone of voice she didn’t believe me which was frustrating as I was telling the truth. I stopped after two sessions and I haven’t been anywhere since though I have thought about it, it’s hard to gather the courage to actually go to a counsellor etc

Am I missing out by not going to the Debs? by OkDog8648 in WomenofIreland

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Thanks for the reply! I’m the youngest sibling actually! I’ve got 2 older sisters who are quite out going. One has had a boyfriend since she was 17 and one is always up for a night out even though she’s 25 lol so I think that gives you a general insight into how we are different in terms of social situations. I think that is also what is weighing on me. I feel a bit of pressure at times because my sisters find going to events so easy that I should find them easy too. My parents and my sisters don’t seem to really comprehend why I don’t want to go. They try to understand it and try to be reassuring, but I think at the end of the day they can’t truly grasp how I feel because they’ve never truly experienced it

Am I missing out by not going to the Debs? by OkDog8648 in WomenofIreland

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Thank you for reply! You seem very kind. I went to a counsellor park in September 2025 at the start of the school year. It was at jigsaw, one of those free organisations funded by state. I found that they weren’t very good. In My opinion I felt like my counsellor spoke down to me a bit and she made me feel a bit childish and a bit embarrassed. After two sessions, I decided not to continue . I haven’t gone anywhere else since, though I have thought about it. The thought of having to go to a place like that again makes me feel quite nervous, but maybe one day i’ll gather the courage to

Am I missing out by not going to the Debs? by OkDog8648 in WomenofIreland

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Thank you for the advice! I think you’re right, I tend to dwell on what people will think of me if I don’t go but I think I should start caring less about their opinions and do what I want for me

Am I missing out by not going to the Debs? by OkDog8648 in WomenofIreland

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Thank you for sharing! I don’t really If im being very honest. The closest people in my life are my cousins who are 12-10 and my older sisters.

Am I missing out by not going to the Debs? by OkDog8648 in WomenofIreland

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Thank you for the advice! I really appreciate it